Do you think it is very important to think and speak
By NancyLobo
@NancyLobo (680)
India
January 22, 2007 5:18am CST
As we all know that if we speak in anger without thinking we cause a lot of damage in relationships so we have to be careful as our tongue can cause a lot of damage, do you agree with this
4 responses
@manong05 (5027)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
I am sure everyone will agree with you on this. Not only that it can cause a lot of damage but once said we can no longer get it back. We can ask for forgiveness but things will no longer be the same again. The are like tiny soft feathers we throw to the wind, one flewn, there's no way of collecting them back again.
@NancyLobo (680)
• India
22 Jan 07
yes, I agree with you by mistake if we have spoken then I think the best thing is to ask for forgiveness though the damage is already done but at least we can expect some mercy.
@sayantani (13)
• India
22 Jan 07
yes I do agree with this statement of yours. It is very important. One rude sentence is enough to break a heart and one misunderstanding is enough to break one relationship. We should speak steadily but think fast.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
22 Jan 07
ouch. i feel so guilty now. but it's nice to read your response sayantani. you have your point. i don't want to break my relationship with my boyfriend. so i should start behaving better now.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
22 Jan 07
you are right. i always try to tell myself to hold back when i am not yet sure of what to say. but usually, i speak first before thinking. then, i regret later.
it's not right and i am trying not to do it again. that's why my boyfriend and i usually end up arguing.
