Could a dog be jealous of a baby inside the house?
By blackaquea
@blackaquea (313)
Philippines
January 22, 2007 6:17am CST
Has your dog been jealous because everyone's attention in the house has been focused on a new baby? My dog is like that, and every time the baby gets near our dog, it growls or stays away from the baby. I remembered in high school, my teacher told me that dogs don't really have emotions. They just act out of impulse. What could be the cause for my dog to act that way towards our baby?
9 responses
@mishang (498)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
maybe your dog feel threatened with the baby, dogs treat his owner and the member of the family as the members of his pack. of course, since the baby is new the dog basically doesn't consider your baby as a member of the pack, as of the moment. eventually, the dog will adopt with the new born baby, just be patient and keep an eye with the dog as he might get irritated with the baby.
@blackaquea (313)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
i think you're right. But I think my dog feels that he'd not be given food anymore because there are times when I'm having a snack and both the baby and my dog would come to ask for some. It's like they're having a silent competition on who gets the food. lol.
@meshellrose (286)
• United States
22 Jan 07
Yes dogs definitely have emotions. Luckily my dog gets along with my kids even when my daughter was a newborn. My cousins dog on the otherhand was very jealous and they ended up having to find him a new home for fear that he would bite their daughter. I know you probably do not want to do that, but you may not have a choice..your baby's safety is what is most important.
@blackaquea (313)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
You are lucky! I never experienced that kind of treatment from my dog. If there's a kid or a baby around me, he gets jealous that sometimes he'd get in the way and seek for attention.
@chertsy (3798)
• United States
22 Jan 07
My dog never got jealous when we brought our youngest home. She was more scared of her, lol. She does get jealous if I'm to close to my husband, she will try her best to get as close as possible in between us.
With your dog, just be careful about his/tail. Our dog doesn't like to have her tail touched. He/she might be older and doesn't really like all the attention the baby is showing it. Maybe get a puppy to take the baby's attention off the dog and onto the new active puppy. Dogs don't like new people coming into there space. The baby is something new to a dog. They don't like new, lol.
@tara99 (68)
• India
23 Jan 07
Yes, the dog and also the cats are jealous of the baby in the house. My cat used be jealous until I started to give her more attention when my daughter was around, calling her by name while playing with my dauthter. Hearing her name mentioned while I was playing with my daughter made her feel included with us, I guess.
@blackaquea (313)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
thanks! the problem is, my baby likes our dog so much and our dog hates him. i don't know how to deal with them but it's like the baby is always on a chase for our dog.
@blackaquea (313)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
i make sure that i do that by patting my dog every time everyone's attention is on the baby. i don't agree with my teacher either. thanks!
@Wanderlaugh (1622)
• Australia
22 Jan 07
According to my mother, a dog can be jealous of a baby in the womb. She said that while there, I kicked her dog literally clear off the bed, and we really didn't get on afterwards, at all.
This is sibling rivalry, the new baby being resented by the old baby. The dog's no longer the centre of attention, and is apparently reacting.
With all due respect to your teacher, the idea that dogs don't have emotions is ludicrous. Ask any dog owner on myLot, and they'll be as astonished as I am by that theory. I've never even heard that one before.
You'll note also that the theory doesn't stack up too well against the way the dog's behaving.
Dogs don't hang around humans for the ambience and intellectual stimulus. They don't regularly risk their lives for their owners on whims. A dog without emotions would be as natural as a human without emotions.
Suggest you feed both at the same time, so the dog sees that you're still caring for him/her. Part of the bonding process with dogs is the feeling of domestic security. The baby is something new, and different in the home. The dog's probably trying to get attention.
@royalkaliber (135)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I agree that you MUST be vigilante when the two are together. It is common for dogs to have aggression to a new baby because the baby is taking over their place in the pack. Their way of dealing with this if it were another dog would be to act aggressively and fight. Therefore it is possible no matter how sweet you think your dog is that he will attack your baby. You must be very very careful. I know two different couples who had to get rid of their dogs because their dogs attacked their babies.