I can not describe my feeling---my good friend will be married.
By vicky19810
@vicky19810 (1600)
China
January 22, 2007 7:50am CST
Yesterday,i received a message from one of my best friend in junior school.she told me that she will be married,and let me come back to be her bridesmaid.after seeing it,i suddenly felt a bit melancholy,but i can not describe that mood.i do not know why i would be that,maybe i am aware of time rush.at present,i have not to be said,just bless my friend beatific forever....
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6 responses
@villageanne (8553)
• United States
16 Feb 07
When a friend gets married, there is always a bag of mixed emotions that come with the news. One feels happy for the friend but at the same time feels unsure of what the future will hold for the freindship. Let the happiness take over your thoughts. Marriage can be a wonderful dicision.
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
20 Mar 07
thanks for your advice and your response.you are all right and now i see that.i am very happy that my friend has a very happy and sweet life in future.lol...
@Dollyjiang (205)
• China
16 Feb 07
Oh ,many of my classmates in university have been married and one of them just have born a baby .At the begining i cant't accept the truth but now i am feel calm whether or not they have held their wedding on Feb 30 (hehe) and just bless them have a sweet life .
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
20 Mar 07
thanks for your response,yes,now i am calm too.lol...i wish them happy and sweet.
@wanna_be (411)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
Don't be sad for it. That is your friends' decision and maybe she thinks that this is the right time and the right guy to spend her life with. Just wish her good luck.
My friend way back college also told me that she will be married soon this year and I am one of the secondary sponsors. I am happy for her because I know that her boyfriend will take care of her. I know the guy and from the very start she told me that he wanted to be her wife when their relationship is still a month old. I am also one of the witnesses of their relationship. I am just excited to see her walk down the aisle. :-)
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
15 Feb 07
thank you for your comfort,and now i am very happy that my good friend has gained her own partner,also i believe that that boy will treat her very very well.lol...i hope they can be much happy with each other.
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
23 Jan 07
yes you are right,i believe that she must be happy in future ,as her boyfriend really loves her very much.and she will live comfortable as it is her own choice.thanks for your response.
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
16 Feb 07
I don't think that it is at all unusuall for you to feel this way. I was very sad when my best friend got married. I was happy for her at the same time because I knew she was making a choice that she wanted for her happiness, but still sad because in a way I felt like I was losing my friend to this man. I knew better, but it was hard not to feel that way.
@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
20 Mar 07
yes,my thought is the same as you,but now i do not have it ,as i am calm to see that my friend get her another part and will live a happy and sweet life for future.lol...now ,i am very happy.
@grumpy25 (8)
• United States
5 Feb 07
It's natural to be a little sad because your friendship will change. Her time will now be split up even more - job, husband, making a home, friends, her family, and yes in-laws. In the time that I was engaged, I grew apart from a lot of friends because we were just in different stages of our life. I got married to a wonderful man, moved to another state, and made new friends. (Not saying that this will happen to you guys.) Try to really support her during this time and have fun spending time together before the wedding. You may look back on this as a wonderful time.
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@vicky19810 (1600)
• China
16 Feb 07
thanks for your response,and yes ,you are right.in our time of life,we have to change many kinds of roles,then we should alter our moods and attitudes for them.i know ,and i will be happy with her wedding,and bless them happy and sweet forever.
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