ever loved someone who doesn't love back?

Always felt like this, before 4 years back when I've loved a girl name sara, I was mad for her if she says bilal sing a song I sang, I never sang on saying of my dad either, anyhow, I means I loved her madly but she never loved me back ever, Alas! I get to know she is committed with a guy name fahad, then I realized how can I love a girl who had never loved me? than I think it must be an infactuation. And I got a new girl now, she is pretty, she is adorable, she is what I always wish for:)

Back in highschool, I feel in love with a girl who doesn't love me. I felt stupid for being that way.

yeah.. that's the worst feeling i ever had... i know he has a feeling for me but he did not make the first move. i waited until i found one...

I haven't experienced that but if one day I'll do, I'll set her free if I'm the only when who gives love. There's a saying that it takes two to tango so definitely a relationship won't get anywhere if only one person gives out love.

its aterrible feeling. without even having anything one can call his own, it gives a feeling of tremendous loss. as if it is something one can never replace. love, truly bench, exists in the heart. even when not responded to, the feeling exists - and persists. and even when one knows someone is not his, the hope of being with that person keeps fuelling the sensation.

Yes, I have crush that stems back since grade 6(!!), she later found a boyfriend and had relationship that still goes on for nearly 10 years. Up to this time I still like her, now it has affected all the traits of a woman I wanted and it's so difficult to find someone like the one I've put on the pedestal.

I think 95% of the people have gone through this experience where they feel that their BF or GF is perfect for them but they were proved wrong after sometime and I think this is normal in this world that you can't get everything you want in this life and this is the harsh reality but instead of quitting we must keep moving on.

i just did months ago..he actually already loves me but i had to give it up coz he already has a girlfriend. that hurts. *sob* *sob* *sob*

yes i used to love this girl, she was my good friend, and i always thought that we would be perfect for each other, but never had the guts to tell her, now i dont even know where she is, and what she is doing

i felt stupid, loving someone who does not love you back, it was painfull when you give all the love you can give and still it was not good enough for her to appreciate it.

yup i did. And it didn't work well for me. Because when I saw her making out with somebody else in front of me, I was so angry I didn't know what to do. Take care and stay away from platonic relationships:)

Yah, it also happens to me. Love her with everything i had and do everything for her.. and in the end receives nothing. It really hurts and makes me cry (boys do cry!!) All i did was love her without expecting anything back in return. ( a very sad ending)

relationship is supposed to be a two way traffic. both of which must feel the same way as the other. loving a person who doesn't love you back is a big stupidity. so if ever you are experiencing as such right now... hmm..you better make your move..

Yeah I've felt that way before, but I've come to realize that if he doesn't love you back then it's a waste of time and YOU WILL find someone much better. I've also realized that when you love someone you always think that they're perfect regarless of their flase. You don't see how other people see them.

hi bench, yes, i do.i guess all of us have been or still going through that dilema.but it is a matter of perception,or maybe we are just expecting too much of our partners that we feel it is kind of unfair. the best thing for us to do is just love the person without any expectation that the other person would love you back the way you have given your love.a selfish love, then if all of a sudden the tables have been turned ,at least you would feel triumphant. just love, my dear.

Unrequited love! The eternal song of the romantics. Yes, I've suffered it from it many a time. It's rather painful. To have found the perfect girl and know that she will never love you. Some may even argue there is no greater pain the world.

Its never been the case with me.. I dont love people who are not loving me.. Thats a stupid thing to do.. Im always believe that "Love people who are in love with you".

well it depend on your love that how much he loves you may be possible he got in trubble bue he wont tell you or he wont bother you if he love you truly he will definatly back

Well, this is such a dilemma ain't it? It hurts. A LOT. You just have to learn to accept it no matter how hard. Nothing will happen if you force yourself into someone who doesn't love you. You may be happy if ever that happens, but it will be total misery to the other.