Communication in a relationship
By emquinsat
@emquinsat (1058)
Philippines
January 22, 2007 10:01pm CST
I just broke up with my guy last night. We fought over our schedules. He always neglect me. We very seldom meet since the both of us are working and he can't even call me or sms me. I always leave him messages but he don't really reply. Why is it so difficult for men to communicate?
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6 responses
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
5 Feb 07
it is not difficult for men to communicate, it is probaly because he refuse to talk to you, or maybe his feeling change about you, stuff like that happend, there is nothing you really can do about it, expcet move on and maybe you will find someone else better.
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@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
I spoke to him recently and he said that he loves me. Its just that he doesn't have the time to communicate regularly. I still ended it and he just said he'll try to win me back if he has the time to focus on me.
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@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
6 Feb 07
and what happend if down the road when you two get back together and not have time again would he broke it off again and you will be hurt again.
@sensesfail (2251)
• India
6 Feb 07
i thought you were single all this while and needed a guy.Thats why i accepted to be yours.
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@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
6 Feb 07
I am single. I just broke up with my ex-bf. So technically, I am single.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
4 Feb 07
maybe because they get used to expect woman do the initiative to do make up with the shortcomings. well as i believe in relationship it should be give and take and both should have make time to find to communicate with each other thats if they truly love each other. Maybe perhaps your boyfriend is not that really serious yet for relationship thats why he is not making an effort to communicate with you or maybe its just his excuse to make you decide to break up with him.
@jenabriam (44)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
Hi. I'm sorry you have to end up breaking up with your bf. But if he is someone who neglects you and couldn't even find time to call or send a message to you don't you think its for the better that you broke up with him? You deserve somebody who sees and ackowledge you.
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@blindedfox (3315)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
Guys like that isn't even worth your time. Go look somewhere else. You deserve someone better. There are lots of other guys out there who is a lot better than your ex.
But also, maybe your ex is just trying his best to move on. And he does that by not communicating with you. That is possible. So don't hand him all the blame. =)
@emquinsat (1058)
• Philippines
5 Feb 07
Why does he have to move on. I mean we where still together when he wasn't communicating with me. He gave me his explaination but I can't get it. He said he really doesn't have the time. So i broke up with him.
@annie_me17 (31)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Im sorry to hear that you two broke up. I believe communication is really a key in a relationship. But i don't think is a problem for men but for women as well. I hope you can find someone better.
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