Why men cheat?

i think its the opposite...they are not willing to put in the hard work to maintain a monogomous relationship. in my opinion, if someone cheats on their spouse, then they werent really in love with them in the first place. if you are in love with someone the very last thing you would ever want to do..is hurt them. and cheating has got to be the most painful and biggest betrayal couples can do to each other. its not hard for them. the relationship just isnt that important to them.

There was one point in my life that I have a lot of ladies in one setting. But I was always playing safe. I always make sure that there is no string attached even if we are exactly like love birds. So that if she'll accidently see me with other ladies, I cant be tag as cheater because in the first place we are not really in a formal relationship. That was my form of defense but I believe it is like cheating. I don't why but I believe that men should experience cheating at one point of his life. I think it is in "some" man's nature to want more ladies at one point in his life. That's why experiencing that earlier is better than when he is married. It is not hard to be faithful if you really love the person. Right now I'm on a long distance relationship going 5years this year and I am faithful to her even if she can't see my actions because I am deeply in love with her. Love is the key to being faithful.