Is flirting healthy?
By kalpan_vasa
@kalpan_vasa (324)
India
January 23, 2007 1:33am CST
I know it might sound stupid question to many, but I really want you to think about that. Is flirting healthy? I say yes if it is done with very clear and genuine intension. Let me explain that, if I met a girl somewhere in the party and all. I observerd her for some period of time and then I thought we could spend some quality time together and know something new exciting things from each other. I could just approach the girl and say, "Hey liste, I realised you are nice human being and after this party I don't know whether we are going to meet in future or not. Why don't we just spend some time together like having coffee, watching movie or dinner etc. I am sure, this way I would be able to learn something new exciting things from you and you from me."
Now we decide in such matter start meeting each other. Do you think its not good? I don't think this way flirting is always bad.
What do you say ?
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5 responses
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
24 Jan 07
Yes, I agree with you. There must be good intentions behind this.
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Well for my opinion its not flirting, its only a way to know people more.For me flirting is geting attetion of others without any good intention. The only intention is to attract attention.But making a way to know more person is a goos way to start a new relationship"friends or lovers".
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@BijalDesai (19)
• India
25 Jan 07
Hi,
Flirting is the other name of friendship, that what i beleive....
If you think by getting someone's attention you feel good than you should carry on the activities... but it should not harm the other person who is attracted..
I have many friends and to make new friends is my HOBBY.... so whereever I go like in a friend's party or in social function I make new friends.
At times, I become naughty and tease the other person but it is part of life so.....
So enjoy your life as it comes to you.....
@Vicky86 (243)
• United States
23 Jan 07
i used to love to flirt, of course just some hrmless flirts. it boost your self- esteem and you feel good to know, that somebody finds you attractiv.
ciao vicky
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
27 Jan 07
Well i wouldn't say that what you did is flirting, you were making friends with the girl and approached her and talked to her properly...but maybe it is just me who is naive but i don;t really know when men flirts..its usually the girls who like to flirt with guys. Guys are clear and says outwardly when they want the girl. Maybe im wrong but that is how i see it. What you did was just normal and proper.
@kalpan_vasa (324)
• India
29 Jan 07
Yes, that's very true, guys are very much straight forward. They say it if they like it and vise-versa.
Girls are master in flirting. They enjoy it like any other game play and they really play it well.
