Is Love enough to get married?
By maijes
@maijes (18)
Philippines
January 23, 2007 1:45am CST
As most of girls, we usually dream of a beautiful and perfect marriage for us in the future. But are you ready to face marriage life? I am only 21, but my bf wants us to get married before he leave for a business trip for about 6 months, he said he loves me so much but is it enough to prove that our marriage life will be perfect? can someone help me?.. i need to decide before he leave next month. thanks.
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13 responses
@angelco (345)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
well sis its all up to you but before you get married you have to think if you are really ready to face another path of your life...because if you are already married you will take more responsibilities...one more thing, you can ask yourself if both of you are financially, emotionally, mentally and spiritually stable since it is the most important things that must be partners should possessed so your married life be successful...
@mrsartemisfowl (55)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
No, I think love is not enough. There are a whole lot of other things needed like respect and acceptance. One must be totally sure in choosing who to spend his/her whole life with if they take marriage seriously. Just ask yourself if you can imagine being with this person in all eternity.
@hariprasad134 (130)
• India
25 Jan 07
yes love isenough to get married becoz love makes life happy and no other things can make u happy and the love is costless and love cannot be destroyed
@garetamor (55)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
when you get married, it doesnt mean that you'll live happily ever after. its a new beginning in your relationship. when you marry someone be ready for changes between you and your partner. if you are emotionally and financially ready then go for it. love isnt enough and just because hes going on a business trip for a period of time doesnt mean he has to marry you. think about it.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
23 Jan 07
Well there is love and there is love, a person can love afew people, some many but if it is true love and that means you have trust and respect too then I would say yes it is, but true love as far as I have seen is very rare...
@moneyking (33)
• Malaysia
30 Jan 07
You can't pushed for love.. it comes by itself.. my suggestion don't married yet.. married until he came back. You can used the time for checking either your bf is the right guy for you. :-)
@smartnrich (1067)
• Malaysia
7 Feb 07
You Love must be balance by mental, phisical financial stability, mental, understanding and relegiosity.
@blee92 (581)
• United States
4 Feb 07
If you are happy, and you love him, go for it! but to stay on the safe side, hire someone to spy on him to see if he cheats on you when he doesn't see you for those 6 months. (i'm sorry if you felt insulted but for some reason i'm thinking of this thing i saw on tv about people cheating on their wives)
@simplyjemz (188)
• Philippines
29 Jan 07
NO! when u enter that stage (married life), you must be sure that u're ready emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually. though if u say you really love each other but u're not stable..no work at all..u would not live a happy, contented and healthy life
