how do you make referrals?!

The method I am using for getting referals is create a blog and then promote that blog.Also increase in friend circle increases referals.Actually referals is mutual help type of think.Here is the link for my blog http://fun-money.blogspot.com/ , here I have information about creating a blog.also after creating a blog please send me its address so that I will add the link on my blog and you also add my link on yours.Thus we can increase the refering process.Also you can refer to friends on different sites and forums.