boyfriend
By lundie_g
@lundie_g (6)
United States
January 23, 2007 8:48am CST
I have lived with this guy for about 4 years now he is 11 years younger than me ,i realy dont like him ,and tell him to leave all the time and he wont go ,but i need help with the bills so i put up with him i am afraid for him to leave for the bills and my house i will loose.do you think it is wrong to keep him around for that and do you think it is wrong to try to find someone else befor he goes if i am truthful with the other guy?
3 responses
@kristia (138)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
yup, i think what you are doing is wrong. if yu don't love him, be honest to him and let him go. tell him you like smeone else. it is unfair on his part that you just want him around because you can't pay tthe bill yourself. he deserves to be loved, truly and hnestly. if you can't give him that... let him go.
@lundie_g (6)
• United States
24 Jan 07
hey honey yes i read your last question and yes your r very pretty you look like a nice girl, as for my question I do tell him every day how i feel and no he wont leave and i do not have a new guy,i asked should i find a new one then make him leave, i to need to be loved.he treats me bad ,he is young and immature i have tried for the last 4 years to talk to him and he just dont get it.in ways i love him but i am not in love with him yes i could spend the rest of my life with him but he needs to grow up.so i am in a bad spot,and realy dont know what to do? I do need him here,and i do not want to see him go,that is why i have not found a new man.and when i say man i mean man.just wanted to let you know i am not cheating on him.thanks for your input.
@lundie_g (6)
• United States
24 Jan 07
hey honey yes i read your last question and yes your r very pretty you look like a nice girl, as for my question I do tell him every day how i feel and no he wont leave and i do not have a new guy,i asked should i find a new one then make him leave, i to need to be loved.he treats me bad ,he is young and immature i have tried for the last 4 years to talk to him and he just dont get it.in ways i love him but i am not in love with him yes i could spend the rest of my life with him but he needs to grow up.so i am in a bad spot,and realy dont know what to do? I do need him here,and i do not want to see him go,that is why i have not found a new man.and when i say man i mean man.just wanted to let you know i am not cheating on him.thanks for your input.
@jayarajgr (816)
• India
23 Jan 07
It ultimately will depend on what he decides. For the time being it seems that he likes you so much. But in majority of cases, the younger guys will leave the girl. That may not be the case with you. You can be that person who comes in the last 1% where such a relationship will work.
Talk to him about this. And talk realistically.
@jbones32103 (717)
• United States
23 Jan 07
Sounds to me you need to find other ways if possible, to pay your bills. Then get you someone you can really care about. It's not good not to be happy.
