am i ugly?

Philippines
January 23, 2007 10:19am CST
i feel so ugly. ever since i was a child, no guy ever expressed his feelings for me. im already 20 and i still haven't experienced being courted. is it in the way i dress, look or is it my attitude. i also have few guy friends. i feel guys don't want to make friends with me coz im ugly and quiet. but sometimes i think i look beautiful in pictures. i think i won't be able to get married in the future coz no one likes me. i sometimes envy those people i think are ugly but gets to be courted by more than 1 guy and had many relationships before.
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4 responses
maribel1218
@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
Dont felt upset with what you look like or what you think about yourself, beauty is beyond skin deep. Instead think of your talents and your achievements and concentrate with it. Being courted with dozen of man is not a measurement of beauty, don't be envy to them maybe you have 1 man destined for you and that man is far more responsible than those dozen man. Center your attention to the things you excel with and one day suitors will come along your way unnoticed. stay beautiful inside. cheers to us.
alexiaagulto
@alexiaagulto (59)
• Philippines
23 Jan 07
that's the downside, i don't have any talents and my parents say im bad. what more do i have.
katyzzz
@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
25 Jan 07
Get a makeover, get help with your wardrobe, learn to use your personality, feel warm towards and like people, looks don't matter.
xXmeganxX
@xXmeganxX (4420)
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25 Jan 07
hi there, firstly don't be put down on how you look, and don't listen to anybody that say your ugly, there obviously not mature enough everyone is beatiful in there own little way and nobody is ugly, nowadays i do seem to think that men do go for the only nice looking girls but i don't think that's right, it's not about looks it's about personality, looks don't mean anything, you could get a really fit boy/ girl and she /he could be a nightmare! were all going to be old and wrinkly one day after all. so then please don't feel sad, you just haven't met the right person yet and when you do, it will make things alot better and happier! :)
bigstret
@bigstret (484)
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23 Jan 07
I dont think anyone is ugly we all just look different... I just read someones discussion that answers this very well... take a look... http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/636347.aspx