i want a baby

Lagos, Nigeria
January 23, 2007 10:33am CST
I have been marriad for 4 years now. The doctor said that nothing is wrong with me and my wife. But we have no babies yet. It worrys me a lot. I want another me. I prefer to have a girl first, then boys. My wife is equaly worried. Is anything wrong besides medical . The doctor had given us a clean bill of health. Is there any one out there who feels like me.
3 responses
• United States
25 Jan 07
It is okay to be worried but everything happens for a reason. When it is time you will have a baby until then do not worry because worrying can bring your health down. Stay prayorful and your time for children will come.
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
i know the feeling. my husband and 1 are married for almost 3 years now. yet, still no babies. stress can actually add up to this. don't stress yourself out! be patient my dear. have you checked with the OB? i'm starting to undergo tests on hormonal imbalances... since the OB said that a not balanced hormones can be the effects of this... cheer up! things will work out fine soon. Just don't loose hope! :D Good Luck to us!
• United States
23 Jan 07
Just be patient, don't stress because I heard it can prolong it. Plan a nice romantic night if you haven't done it already. If you have, keep doing it. Most importantly, put it in God's hands. I am sure he will bless you with a beautiful child soon. The same thing happened to one of my friends and now she is expecting her 2nd child. So just stay calm and pray alot. Good luck to you and your wife.