living relationship good or bad?

@ritak3 (52)
India
January 23, 2007 12:55pm CST
In india living relationship is not been encouraged. but still few of cities we will find people living in together. society doesnt ecourage us. in other countries its all normal. but is it really good to practice. i mean is it good to stay together before marriage, know the person and then marry or we should go by the system what we have arrange marriage?
4 responses
Angelinka
@Angelinka (1410)
• Italy
23 Jan 07
hey there,i guess you are from India..i know its very dificult there,you allmost have no freedom..i am sorry about it...me and my boyfriend we are living together 3 years..and we are very happy together..we pass all the day and night together..i love him so much,he loves me..marriage..nah..for this moment i am not ready..i want to be stabile in my life and then get married and make babbies..
ritak3
@ritak3 (52)
• India
23 Jan 07
hey thanx friend. i really liked your thought and view. i am an indian but i life in a city which is very much driven by foreign culture. i see people living together but i dint know its good or bad. thanks to you that you have given me the best answer :)
jarman
@jarman (14)
• Nigeria
23 Jan 07
i think works better in palces like the US and not in India
jshekar
@jshekar (86)
• India
24 Jan 07
Even though live in relationships are good. However, in countires like India where is we respect our culture and religion very much, it is not allowed. Now a days, even in India people having live in relationships. We cannot say that it is bad.
Tanushree4444
@Tanushree4444 (1275)
• India
23 Jan 07
well the opinion would vary from one individual to another. its entirely on two people's liking. if its fine with both of them then who are we to poke our nose in their matter?
shemb1
@shemb1 (464)
• Sri Lanka
23 Jan 07
I dont like livimg tgether because it not nice on the before marriage. and it may be bad advice for small child also. sometimes people think living to gether is good for this generation cos then we know how the partner , and so on and on.............. but it is not nice at all. because we are not animals and we have to keep our postions in good manner.