Do you sleep in the same bed as your spouse?

I do sleep in the same bed with my spouse but i really wish i could sleep in my own bed. he takes all the room in the bed and grinds his teeth. I cant sleep but when i try to sleep on the couch he gets mad. So i just deal with it because it would hurt our relationship badly if we slept seperatly

of course i sleep wid my spouse..but i know there are certain people who dont...but let me tell u if u r sleeping wid ur spouse then u can feel the closeness wid ur wife..if u r sleeping separate then u gonna loose ur love lost day b day..

we sleep in the same bed. but sometimes him or i sleep out on the couch. i will if he is snoring too bad and he does it when he is sick or when he falls asleep there and i do not wake him. i dont think it is a bad thing but it does take the comfort of being together away.

We do sleep at the same bed.He sleeps on the other bedroom, if my 1 year old is sick, and wants to sleep in my bed.If there is a reason to sleep in separate beds,it's ok..but if for no particular reason you start in separates beds, there is a problem.

My girlfriend can be a bit of a bed hog and always wants to lay on top of me. That and if I'm not all that tired, we tend to keep talking and keep each other awake. Sometimes it's just easier for me to sleep on the couch. It's brand new and it's nice having it all to myself. My girlfriend whines for me to come back there and it just depends on how I feel. If I've slept on the couch a couple nights in a row it can be hard to go back to sharing a bed.

For the most part we do sleep in the same room, but he goes through these periods where he sleeps downstairs on the couch. I think it's because he's too lazy, tired, whatever to drag himself upstairs. It's just easier for him. I don't like waking up to find him not there, but not enough to go get him!

Nothing crude about that question at all IMO..and to answer it, yes we sleep in seperate beds, in fact we have completely seperate bedrooms and have since before we got married! As far as how it affects our relationship goes, its actually BETTER for us as a couple to have our own rooms...

i sleep in the same bed as my partner, but sometimes i don't, it doesn't affect our relationship tho! :)

Well, this is an interesting one. We sleep in the same bed, most of the time, but we don't sleep under the same blankets. See, I'm a blanket hog. I wrap myself up in the blankets so he doesn't get any. That's why we've decided to go with seperate blankets. So sometimes when he snores too loud, he'll sleep upside down (his feet and head at opposite ends as mine). When he works his other job though, and gets home in the wee hours of the night, he sleeps on the couch so he doesn't wake me up. I think if we had a house I'd want an extra bedroom just in case he's snoring too loud, or when he comes home at weird hours and doesn't want to wake me.

i sleep in the same bed as my spouse because i am very close to my husband

Yes, i do sleep in the bed with my hubby. I think that maybe a reason i have three kids...lol. Anyways.. i feel close, and safe when we sleep in the same room together. now there has been times when we may fuss about something and he goes to sleep on the couch. but when i wake up in the morning he's lying next to me.

He works nights, so he's usually not home when I'm sleeping. However, when he is home we're in the same bed...usually cuddled up taking up less than half the bed!

This is a very interesting question! My husband and I have been married for 23 years and do sleep in the same bed. We have also never spent the night apart. I could not imagine NOT lying beside of him at night. I come from a family, going back to great-grandparents I remember, who all shared separated rooms including my own parents. When I asked them why they had separate bedrooms I was given varied responses like "he/she snores", "health issues", etc. It did not seem to affect their relationships adversely at all. I guess it is just a personal preference agreed upon by the couple.

My boyfriend and I sleep in the same bed. We usually start out snuggled up and then end up each curled up in our own blankets. I like knowing he's there next to me - it makes me sleep better! But I also know couples who don't like sleeping together. My parents haven't slept in the same bed much in years. Dad snores and likes to be cold when he sleeps, and Mom likes to be toasty warm, so it works better for them that way. I think the only way sleeping in separate beds effects the relationship badly is if it puts an end to other bedroom activities, if you don't bond in other ways, or if one person would prefer to be sleeping together. If both people prefer being able to sprawl out in their own space to sleep, more power to 'em!

My wife and i do share a bed, but since i work an odd shift, we rarely get to actually sleep together more than a few hours a night. but really, i sleep better just knowing she's nearby, whether she's sleeping with me, or puttering around the house.

Well yes on most nights. If I get to sleep before he does then his snoring usually will not wake me. He is a very restless sleeper so if he gets to moving around too much it will wake me and I am outta there back to the guest room. I work so have to be up at 5:30 am. no time to mess with my sleep! LOL. Most nights we sleep peacefully together, with our 80 lb. Lab too.... California King size bed helps. LOL

I sleep in the same bed with my husband. He wouldn't have it any other way. I couldn't imagine having separate bedrooms either, although, I'm sure my husband wouldn't mind if I had a separate room for my mess! I would imagine it would have to affect the relationship in some way, I don't know if badly though, because if you or your spouse has sleep problems, it might actually be better.

hmmm... yes, we sleep in the same bed :) we even co-sleep with our 5-month old son :) well, in our case, whenever the other doesn't sleep in our bed, that means we're not in good terms or if not, our sleeping position changes!

That's funny, well not really, but I just saw that on good morning america yesterday. Seems like a lot more people are doing it now than we really think. I sleep in the same bed as my spouse because it would feel kind of wierd not too. Alot of older people are doing that, who knows I might feel differently later when I am a little older but for now I feel comfortable in sharing the bed with my hubby.

I guess everyone has their own preference. Personally, I work nights 5 nights a week. And I miss sleeping in the same bed at the same time as my hubby. Usually we always do sleep together, and needless to say, we enjoy the weekends when we can share the bed. It creates an intimacy.