A Question To All Who Have Sent Me Friend Requests...

I end up rejecting at least 3-4 friend requests each day. Apparently, people see a high post total and think they can make more money by being your "friend."

To be perfectly honest I saw some of your posts, and I know you're a lesbian. I liked what I saw, and I said why not make a friend that has something in common with me? I haven't made to many friends on here, so I'm looking to find some with similar interests.

Maybe because they know that you can share your opinions and give them a whoopin' while stating your point!;) Or maybe they expect you to respond to some of their discussions and shed a light on their queries.

Not sure if you want to open this to people whose requests you've already approved, but for me, I kept seeing your name as the starter for various discussions...Many were highly interesting to me, a few weren't. So, I checked out your profile, read some of your discussions, and thought you'd be a great person to have on the friends list...Generally, I look at the discussions my friends have posted before looking at others.

I'll be perfectly honest with you, since you are the honest sort. I've run across your topics every day since I joined two weeks ago. At first, I thought, "wow, this person says what she means and means what she says, I like that". Then, I thought, well, maybe she's a bit too edgy for me. So, I waffled and wavered and decided that I couldn't deny the fact that I really appreciate your writing style, your wit and your forthrightness. I decided to take the chance that you didn't think I was an idiot. That's when I submitted my friend request.

Hello Misskatonic I dun think you appreciate this meddling...but i could not help when i saw ur post. As your question is to all who have sent you friend request it should not be answered by other ppl as I guess. I have never sent u a friend request and never came across ur post. But now m gonna send you one knowing that I will be rejected. LOL.......

i don't know why

Well I guess that mean you are wonderfully popular, congratulations.,...:)

you are great saying about yourself great keepit up.i think people should know beforehand about you,.

wow 28 friend request that is awesome. i will tell you why i sent mine and you can call me any name in the book but this is why, because you were on another friend list that was on mine and i saw you were from the USA, so i sent a request.

Actually no i never checked out your profile but your discussions alwats draw me back and wanting more which is why i sent you my friend request!

I don't know whether this is the best way to create friends.But when I saw this discussion I just added you as my friend and I am posting this reply.And by the way is it you in your profile.Mmmmmm.....You look good.....

Dont knw......... i'm new ere.....

Yes I did add you but not today nor yesterday.I added you a week ago and what made me add you? Your Style of writing and the way you express yourself made me add you. You convey your message so clearly That it leaves one thinkingg what to say to Out-Wit you lol. Really You writing skills are out of this world and You deserve loads and loads of appreciation for that. Rock on And Keep Inspiring Readers like me becuase we too wan't to improve our way of writing and expressing ourselves.

I checked your profile first. I always do as a matter of course. Both for curiosity's sake as well as to avoid spammers. As for why, it had nothing to do with any particular point of view or opinion or even common interests. It's because someone who can think stands out like a dove among crows and I notice that and would hate to pass up an opportunity to focus my attentions here on that rather than the endless drivel you see on the new posts page.

The reasons I asked you to be my myLot friend are exactly what you describe: your "sometimes witty, more often b*tchy" comments and topics. Even if I don't always respond to your discussions -- because I have nothing constructive to add -- this doesn't mean that I don't read them and enjoy them. Keep posting! :)

I did indeed read your profile prior to initiating a myLot friendship. I think that, at the time, I had spotted several of your topics during the course of a week or so, and, having caught my interest, I decided that their author might be someone to keep an eye on. I belive I was right. :)

I read through some of the responses to this question, but not all, so I don't know if my reason is the same as anyone else's. Honestly, the reason I requested you as a friend was because I saw your name in the "Top Discussions" list a lot. When I went to your profile, I saw a lot of interesting topics that you had started and all of them had pages of replies. I wanted to be able to read your discussions and responses when I had time, and figured the only way to keep track was to add you as a friend. I love the fact that your answers are always well thought out and honest, whether you agree with the topic or not. I know a lot of people here are afraid to post when they disagree with a topic because they think it will affect their ratings.

I added you because I saw your name alot and finally went to your page. You have a lot of good topics even though sometimes I seem to have nothing to comment on them about. I don't really know what drew me to you other than that and you had an interesting pic.

I would like to be on your friend list as i like what you post, I havent as yet replied to many as most people have already said what i would have said but i will try to get in first and reply more