How do you know if you have found your SOULMATE?

@apaule (47)
Philippines
January 23, 2007 6:32pm CST
Among the billions of people here on earth, how do you find your soulmate? How do you know if you have found him/her? If we send out a cosmic sign out in the universe, would it turn out like the movie "Serendipity"?
4 responses
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
24 Jan 07
This is one of the most ask and most difficult question to answer. First you have to truly understand what a soulmate is. Is it someone that thinks and feels just like you? Is it someone that thinks and feels the way you want a mate to think and feel? It is highly unlikely that 99.8 % of us will ever find what we think of as a soul mate. But that doesn't stop us from loving that imperfect person. We all do and sometimes it works and sometime it doesn't. For you to insist that you only marry a person you percive to be you soulmate is to doom yourself to wander through life looking. It is like looking for the perfect person. They do not exsit. We all have faults and most of the tiime we do not let those be known until after we marry. So look for them but don't overlook the perfect person for you in trying.
@Darkwing (21583)
24 Jan 07
It's quite true what you say here, so may I be pertinent and point you to a website which explains a soulmate? It's very interesting, or it was to me... after I found my soulmate of course. lol. If you're interested in reading it, here's the URL... http://www.angelfire.com/realm2/amethystbt/soulmates.html Enjoy. :-)
• United States
24 Jan 07
A very wise man once told me to figure out if she is your soulmate all you need to do is try and imagine your life without her. If you simply cannot then that is love, if you can and it's sad that's not and if you can but it it is not worth living through then it is a Soul Mate. Also look into his eyes and if you can't see his soul but both of your melding together that is a Soul Mate as well.
@Darkwing (21583)
24 Jan 07
You will be brought together by some force, and you'll know almost instantly that they are your soul mate. I did. I knew we were meant to be together and it seemed as though I'd known him all my life. It took him a long time to come along, but fate has its ways of dealing with these things... I just knew he was the one I was supposed to be with, and will be eternally. Good luck... I hope you find yours soon. Brightest Blessings. :-)
@csenguler (243)
• United States
24 Jan 07
trust me you never know. Because when you believe the most, it comes out to be the wron choice. So, I don't know whether to suggest to look for or just wait for it. You better just enjoy your life just as it is..:)