infidelity is it love or excitement or just lust

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what will you do if by chance you found your first boyfriend/first love and then realized that you both need each other,love each other and much comfortable with each other and ready to risk and stand and leave the famliy you both have.i found him,we didnt have a formal break up because were in highschool then so young.after 16 years we met again and almost 8 months of seeing each other everyday,we know the magic is still there but the situation is very complicated.we both have kids to consider and spouses to think about...we dont want to stop this but just waiting for the proper time if everything will be okei then we will go,not to run away but to file for annulment.or maybe were just fooling ourself cause we dont want to go and be with each other because were afraid that we will hurt the people we'll be leaving behind?help....