Why most men leaves us girls after they get what they want from us?

hi arkana! Not to consider myself lucky because I never encountered a man like that who gets they want and just leave, maybe before you commit to a man again know first his motives towards you, and how sincere he is to you, before giving up anything don't ever give him the chance to treat you like a litter in the street. You seems to be a nice lady with a bright future ahead and with attitude such as yours the right man will come along just be patient to wait for it and remember patient has a reward. Don't give up everything, let him prove to you his worth. Be brave dear, you can do it.

thatwhy our elder say that don't surrender urself in front of him untill and unless he marry u.

i had been into 13 relationships and my heart was broken every now and then. men at first are dying to start a relationship with us. they promise the whole world to us. and when we're in a relationship with them, they don't care anymore. so, it's us, women, are the ones dying just to keep the relationship going. it's really frustrating that men can just neglect our important. it's sad that such men do exist here on earth. i am glad that i am in a relationship now which is a happy and a healthy now. i never felt neglected in any day.

I am a man I have never done bad like you said, but other men maybe, they like dogs on the street. I don't blame them. But you are nice, you have to take care yourself it is the best. So you don't get much pain from them or any dirt on you.

i am a man, who never loved a girl.. Yes, u are right, 99% men wants from girls what u are talking... Its not in their control.... I have lot of girl friends and have said to them already that i do not love u but we are good friends and if u allow we can spend a night....i think i am not bad. Result is, most girls prefer to stay away from me...result no girl to meet...

Oh, Arkana, am sorry for you, i would i respond now, really i dont know, am a man and without a girl friend at the moment but i dont think i will ever git or leave my girl friend if i ever get one except she has gone over my nerve which she must also realise. you look inward, do you base your love or friendship on giving to the man what they want or you submit so willingly to their immoral acts, all this can really affect the relationship, if i say come and give to me as your boyfriend you gave, without any thing bidding us together, then i see you as one who shares it about and i willl readily take you for granted and no mattter the sweet talk and everything, i will also leave you. take care and be careful next time with you new boyfriend.