Would you call it rape?, Or is it consent?
By sendil143
@sendil143 (183)
India
January 24, 2007 1:10am CST
One night, a girl went out to a bar and had several drinks with friends. This one guy who the girl had flirted with offered to give her a ride home, and she accepted. They walked into her apartment and she immediately went to bed and passed out. The next thing she know, she woke up and he then penetrated her. She was too shocked to say anything or to tell him to stop. Since She did not tell him to stop does this mean she consented? After about 30 seconds he got off of being on top of her, and she immediately went out of the room and came back and told him to leave. The next morning she laid on the floor for about 3 hours in the fetal position sobbing her eyes out. Is this date rape or a one-night-stand?
4 responses
@Lil_miz_ice_x (614)
•
24 Jan 07
How has that been accidental?
He obviously knew what he was doing, and the fact that she was, well, UNCONCIOUS, should have told him he was doing something wrong, shouldn't it?
@vpupadhyay (44)
• India
1 Feb 07
i do not agree with u my friend.this is not an rape.this is in front of girl who know everything.
so its not a rape.yes she is little unconcious but not full
@vpupadhyay (44)
• India
1 Feb 07
i think this the one night stand.because this done in front of the girl.i think nothing wrong done by the boy
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
24 Jan 07
That's rape. Not saying no doesn't imply consent, in any way, shape or form. And anyone who tries to argue differently should be taken out behind the barn, if you get my drift. There was no consent. The law is very, very clear cut on this. No consent = rape. That is all there is to it.
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
24 Jan 07
This is rape. It's clear cut and not debatable. There was no consent because she was passed out. She wasn't even given a choice or a chance to consent. This man took advantage, raped her, and should be prosecuted. To play the devil's advocate, here, I have to say that this girl showed very poor judgement. She was intoxicated to the point of blacking out, accepted a ride from someone she did not know well, and then let him into her apartment. But before anyone thinks that this means she "asked for it", let me say that even under these circumstances the girl did not consent and she was raped. I'm just giving an example of some of the things for females to be aware of when considering their personal safety, in order to avoid being taken advantage of.
