have you ever been cheated on by your partner?

Last year I found out my husband (now my ex) had signed up with an online dating service. I was heartbroken, but I think I may have been able to forgive him if he hadn't denied it. I had all the information right there in front of us, and he still denied it. To this day, he still claims he never did it. Finding that site was the last straw for me, although we did go to counselling it didn't work. I asked him to pack his bags this summer. I can't live with a person I can't trust.

Yep I have and it hurts. Never forgave him and just couldn't bring myself to even face him, I gave him my love and trust for 3 years and what do I get back? Nothing but lies and lies and lies. I couldn't stand to be where I was, I needed a fresh start, a new city, broken contact with everyone, and now I feel happier than ever, never regretted it.

My ex-husband cheated on me towards the end of our marriage, but that was when things were already bad between us, and it was not the reason for my leaving him. I have been with my current partner for 19 years now. To the best of my knowledge he has never been unfaithful. if he was, then I would not necessarily leave him straightaway. I would want to talk about it first, as 19 years is a long time to throw away just for one, momentary lapse of reason. It would all depend on the circumstances.

Yes I have. I didn't say anything. I just left. It hurt alot. I never forgave him. To me, cheating is something that cannot be forgiven. Once a cheater, always a cheater. They can't be trusted.

yes I have! I caught my bf that he was still texting/calling the girl that he used to court before he met me. He has 2 fones, PDA and cellfone. He used to work at night shifts and that night he left his backpack on my place. When he left, I looked at his PDA and not worrying that I might caught something. Luckily I did! There's these mushy messages and darn it! Everytime it lingers in my mind, I still hurts me. That night, I went out to buy a card (she's overseas), and called her. She said, yeah he's still courting her. I cried and confronted him about it. He didn't admit it but I called the girl with him using a speaker fone and he's speechless. He kept on saying sorry and everything! I did forgive him...until now we're still together! We'll two years this May. Just follow your instinct girl!

My husband has certainly never cheated on me. But my first boyfriend did. And he did it with a friend of mine! As soon as I found out, I dumped him AND stopped talking to her and I never regretted it. They were no friends of mine.

naah!! this has never happened with me..and i strongly believe that such a thing will never happen in ma life..because i trust him like hell..i will go crazy if such a thing happens....

No, but I think that happens every day is furtunate how untrustworthy people can be.

sadly yes. almost 4 years ago, i had a party at my place for my sisters 18th birthday, our daughter was almost 3 at the time. there was the usual party talk and whatnot,anyways to make a long story short, my finace slept with my cousin. she was like a sister to me a really really close friend and cousin. i kicked him out, and my older sister let him stay there so that i could have time to think, my daughters birthday was a week later so i had to see him for shopping and planning and whatnot and of course he had to be there, after a week or so i let him back in but he ahd to be on the couch. it took me months to be able to sleep with him again, but i forgave him. it doesnt hurt anymore. i belive in second chances, he made a mistake and he lives everyday trying to make up for it. But if i ever hear of him doung or thinkong of doing it again its bye bye time for good.

no, not yet.

Yes, i was very angry when i got to know about it, but i did forgive her, after which i hd to end the relationship she i got to know that she was still cheating on me after i have fogiven her.

outraged ^_^

yes, nothing i dont what him to see how i feel but i forgive him,he explained to me why and i forgive him because i love him and still trust him.. till now were still together..

many times already...third parties!!! but it's ok...i regard them as the spices of my life!