Cant Live without HEr

@whozefa (448)
India
January 24, 2007 4:00am CST
We both got engaged after my love for her since last 2 years, we were really happy for around 1 1/2 months after our engagement, then i got the project work in abroad, so i had to travel for 2 yrs, its already around 3 mnths here, but i m not able to adjust myself here without her, i m not able to work properly as well, i just keep reminding abt her al the time, we chat on cell for long hours even on international calls, so nothing is good without her... the fire is same on both the sides, even she feels the same..i dont know what to do , shld i go back.. can u suggest something ...
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@mansha (6298)
• India
24 Jan 07
I think you will need to pay the bills once you get married. Instead of missing her concentrate on your work and do welll. Your hard work will pay off in the end. I stayed away from my now hubby for two years before my marraige we missed eachother and but knew in our heart that its a challange that we have to take and prove our love to each other we survivred and it was the test tht has strengthened our relationship beyond anything. If you give up your work now and do no do as well in life in future you will forever regret your decisions. One has to be practical too if one wants to be happy. wat would you have done if after marriage you had to live in sepration, so think clearly and its just few months that will be ovr in a jiffy. ask her to join you on the net then you can talk for hours without any disturbances. Make love your strength not weakness.
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@alecs76 (657)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
can't you get her to be with you abroad? some companies allow fiancee to be with the employee. opt for chat or have a webcam. call if necessary. there are lot of ways to communicate. but if you can't really work or live without her, better go home.