poligamy or affair

Men always use this statement as a reason to get married more than one. Actually I don't agree to any of them. This is just a way to trick women to choose. It is not a fair choice at all. I think I want to ask you a question. Get married another one and give your first wife 1 million USD, or forget your girlfriend? Which one do you choose?

Polygamy is not really practiced here in our country, except for the Muslims. And I should say, though it shou;dn't be the case, it's pretty obvious that some men or even women are having another affair. Well, personally, am not against any of this, for they are only looking for the real love, the companionship they have always longed for. But it could have been a lot better, if before going into marriage, both have to make themselves very sure that their marriage will last long. But if things go wrong, and they needed to look for love in somebody else's company, then I guess they better file a divorce or annulment to make things run smoothly, without hiding things from your partner.

Personally, i will never oppose a man to marry 2 women. But,i oppose just an passing affair. Why shouldn't one be with the one, he really love. Just affair,is cheating...go marry..its better.