Small talk.... are you any good at it?

I am too. My reason is basic... I am a straight forward person so when I talk small talk it to me it sounds like BS and when I here it, it sounds like BS. The ease of it totally eludes me.

I'm afraid I'm pretty useless at making small-talk with people I don't know too, so don't really have any pointers! I struggle to be moivated to make the effort, especially these days. I much prefer the company of my friends, and people I'm comfortable with. But I know occasions do arise when you meet new people, and have to speak to them. I find it's much easier if it's a group of people, rather than just one. It takes the pressure off a bit.

You do well enough here on myLot. I know that's different than talking face to face but it's a good starting point. Just relax, there are no expectations when talking to someone who doesn't know you. They're thinking the same thing you are. "What do I say next?" Did that sound stupid?" "My mind's a blank." Etc., etc. Talk about anything. Believe me, if someone wants to talk with you, than they're genuinely interested in what you have to say. Talk about their job, your job. Talk about school. Talk about a movie you saw. Talk about music you like. Talk about tv shows you like. Talk about a vacation you took. Talk about a mutual friend but be nice. Talk about animals, your pet(s). Talk about the internet. Talk about your family, their family. Etc. etc. Remember to be a good listener as well. This way you can share your input about what they've talked about. Two things to avoid at all costs. Unless you have like views. Politics and religion. That always ends up negative. ‹(°¿°)›