Question for the looker? what isthe best way to explain you want it?

If there is something you want from somebody, you have to tell him about it. Do not go around circles, that will never help. Get straight to the point so can get a straight answer. A yes will make you happy but a no must always be acceptable for you. Remember that you were just trying to have it, not threatening someone to give you something which is not yours in the first place.