husband and wife

I read your words and think of my parents :( It's not like their bad or something but they just don't understand each other any more, it seems like they're using the meamingless reasons to have an arguement. It wasn't allways like that. In the beginning it was love, roses, blue sky... and then, as time goes by they were replaced by rutine, indifference, etc... And i'm not talking only about my folks but about the vast majority of couples throughout the world. In a relationship the most important things are communication and ability to compromise. It one of the partners is secretly hopping that the other one will change, without any interference, chances of that happening are equal to 0.