Why do some people gets more response then other?

I did not know anyone when I joined mylot except the lady who refered me. I had never even met her. We only knew each other online. I tried writing quality discussions from the beginning. I found that as I continued writing quality discussions, more and more peole began to comment on them. I was getting lots of friend requests also. Today, I still try really hard to write quality discussions and I have quite a following now. Some of my discussions have over 100 comments. That is not the case with many of them though. I am pleased with the people who do comment on mine and I do the same for them. I do however only comment on quality discussions. I dont have time to waste my time on discussions that are going to be deleted.

The reasons I think some people always get more responses are: 1. They have lots of friends on mylot who always respond to the discussions started by them. 2. They start discussions that attract all age people. I mean they start such discussions in which people of all age are interested & respond to it. 3. Their discussion headings are really simple & eye catching. I also always put up quality discussions, but not always I get more responses. Only for 4-5 discussions started by me I got more than 50 responses & others have got really less responses.

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good discussions get more responses..u need to know what people are intersted more at..mostly people are more interested at internet activities, computer games..u find that via their responses and start discussions according to that.. godd luck dear..

Different topics appeal to different people that's all. I don't think it's a matter of what you post, I think it's a matter of who is online when you start your discussions. I find it difficult to get posts with a lot of responses as well, but I'm going to keep trying and so should you :)

I do to feel this way..I hate to see my discussion gone unresponded..I do try to be creative and I think I have started some very interesting discussion but the maximum till far I have is only 13 sadly..I guess maybe I still lack somewhere..I have seen some of my friend's discussion response 100+ and thats amazing..I hope to develop that appeal some day and till then I'll keep tring..all the best to u too..

yeah that was exactly what im feeling too after a week when i joined here,.i tried also m=to make a quality post but still i cant get many replies like others,.the largest responses that i receive to my discussions is just 97 unlike other who are grossing to 100+,.ahmm i think we should learn how to catch the interest of people here,.coz they really reply according to their interest,.try to make more friend also coz they can also help,.some of my friends are actively responding to my post,.but just some of them,.you can do that,.Goodluck!!

its simple that if the discussion is easy and can answer it in a very nice way then the discussion gets the more responses then the other tough ones..

I think it's just because other people write discussions which almost everybody can relate with. Its much easier to respond in a certain topic if you honestly know what the writer is talking about. It's just a matter of creating discussions that will catch the interest of other members.