Abortion! Why?

Portugal
January 24, 2007 8:00am CST
Its the following, here in my country they are going to public opinion about legalizing the abortion until the 12 weeks of pregnancy. id i agree in some situation that the abortion should be legalized but theres some controversy in others. i wouldlike to know your opinion in this subject. what situation should the abortion be legalized? P.S. - Im only in favor of the legalization of the abortion in some situations because in portugal and other countries lots of women die while they do illegal abortions.
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@stailgate (2363)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I do not believe in abortion. I believe that every life that is given to us even if not planned is a precious gift from God. If a women does not want her child, there are many many women out there they can not have children that would feel blessed and honored to take that baby when it is born and care for it as their own.
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@korek222 (701)
• Poland
24 Jan 07
That is also a good point of view but well you cant say that a women that was raped and the life of her baby started that time will be a pround mother or will surely love her child!
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
24 Jan 07
umm i accidently hit the rating not sure what it gave u but i hope it was good im new to this lol
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
25 Jan 07
i would because im a caring person the child didnt ask for being concieved
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I totally disagree with abortions to me regardless of the situation the baby did not ask to be concieved nor to be killed if you dont want the baby or cant afford to care for the child put the baby up for adoption give the child a chance to have a a good healthy life. so to answer your question i dont think it should be legalized to me its sad yes that women die from abortion but if they wouldve gave that child a chance with someone else they would still be alive. right?
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• Portugal
24 Jan 07
maybe but i confront u with this question what if u have been raped and got pegnant form the rapist? what if u discovered that the baby inside you has some kind o deficency that would make im dependable of others for the rest of his life and even feel bad for it ? can you answer me that what if you got a trauma during the rapping and got psycothic and killed your baby ? you should at least think in some situations possible before you answer with that frontality. Its true that every living thing has the right to live but in nowadays people tend to be a little bit selfish about the way they lead their lives its something somewhat inevitable in these days.
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
24 Jan 07
i personally would STILL give it up for adoption like the person below me stated there r lots of women that cant have kids that would love to take the baby disabled or not. as for killing the child i can c ur point BUT hosptials deliver babys if u r in a rage or what not the supervise and have counslers to help with the decision of adoption
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• Portugal
24 Jan 07
ok u got a point in that matter. but if the traumatized pregnant women stllwent through the pregnancy and in a momet of madness lets supose she stabs a knfe in her belly killing herself and the baby?
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Here it goes. I'm going to give my opinion, and then let everyone go at me. Abortion should not be used as a last minute form of birth control. Their are many other forms. There are too many young girls getting too many abortions. Prevention is the big thing. Legalizing abortion is like saying that it's OK to get "knocked up" and then kill the baby. I don't agree with that. Abortion should only be legal for cases of rape/incest or where having the baby would kill the mother and/or child. That's my two cents.......I'm ready!!!
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
25 Jan 07
i agreed with u up until the rape issue i believe if a woman is raped then she can either keep the baby or put it up for adoption to a family that can care for it. there are alot of mothers that cant have children that would love a chance to raise a child. give the baby a chance
@vicky1 (240)
• United States
24 Jan 07
It isn't for me at all. But I think everyone should have that right to do what they want. I am one that won't judge anyone for doing it. But I would hope if someone would want to do this it is for a very good reason like rape maybe but not for someone who choses not to take care of themself and thinks it is a easy way out.
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• United States
24 Jan 07
i am against abortion because first of all it is wrong to stop a beating heart and second of all it causes many health complications. i think that if someone gets pregnant and they can't take care of the baby or they don't want the baby then they should put it up for adoption not have an abortion
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
25 Jan 07
thank you at least someone thinks like i do
@fizzytom (752)
• Maribor, Slovenia
24 Jan 07
Here in the UK its legal and that's a good thing, in my opinion. There are lots of reasons to make abortion available to women and I think that many women would suffer it that right was to be stopped. I do think that culture plays a big part, however. Maybe in some countries families stick together more and will support a young woman who gets pregnant by accident but in the UK we don't have the same kind of culture around the family. Many parents would help support their dughter if she was pregnant but it isn't the tradition for young people to live at home in the UK until they are married and people expect their children to become independent. I also think abortion should be available to women who have been raped and beome pregnant because of that.
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@fizzytom (752)
• Maribor, Slovenia
24 Jan 07
Once a child reaches a certain age they are able to find their natural parents. What an awful thing to find out about yourself.. And what about the poor woman who makes a new ligfe for herself, trying to put he trauma behind her but then the child appears. It could ruin her new life. It could turn her family against her. It would certainly drag up all those horrible memories. Other than the fact that some religious beliefs come into contradiction with abortion, why can people not allow women to decide for themselves? How does it hurt you if those women who believe in choice should be allowed it?
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• Portugal
24 Jan 07
mbarryton think about the trauma. lets put it this way; u were rapped got pregnant u got traumatized and do not wish to have the baby. accordingly to the law u cannot abort therefor u will go to a clinic where they perform illegal abortion and then u die! if the law aproves the abortion until the 12th week of pregnancy if u wish to not have the baby u can do so for ur own sake. thats the issue not legalizing abortion for the total time u are pregnant.
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@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
24 Jan 07
im sorry for any woman that has been raped but abortion is still NOT the way to go. have ya'll ever heard of ADOPTION?
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@anja31 (708)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
There are many reasons why a woman would like to ahve a abortion. I am agree that it should be legalized. At that stadium it isnt a child.
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I think that the only time a women should be alble to get an abortion is if she has been raped because other then that there should be no other excuse. There is birth control out there that can stop a girl from getting pregnant. So if she is not taking that and gets pregant thats her own fault not the human life going inside of her!
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• India
24 Jan 07
i think it is vey sensitive issue to comment on .but my thoughts are that i fully disagree with concept of abortion.i think its equal murder and that to a infant.but during extreme cases i think it should be done when it is dangerous to give birth.
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@wiseacre (221)
• India
24 Jan 07
yeah, dats right many people really die in illega aboetions, in order to find an other way out they end up giving their lives. i think the govt should legalize abortion which could atleast get women get rid off their problems.
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@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
I believe in a womans right to choose what is best for her. 12 week old fetuses are not viable outside the womb, so, I don't believe you're killing a human being. It's just a conglomeration of cells.
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@korek222 (701)
• Poland
24 Jan 07
For me there are several possibilites to make abortion legal until 12 week: 1. Child is a result of a rape ( i dont have to explain that probably) 2. Child has an inborn serious body disability ( like children without arms etc.) or has a gentic diability ( so many to mention here) 3. The women who is having that child is less then 14 years old ( that is sick that girl can have children since she is not mentally prepared to have them) Well that all
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• United States
25 Jan 07
I think that if you knowingly have a baby when you have head tests, that the baby will be very ill, it is selfish to have go through and have the baby. Why put a human being through needless suffering if you don't have to ? I don't feel that abortion should be used as birth control. I do feel that a woman has the right to choose what is right for her. I think it is wrong to tell a woman who has been raped and put through mental hell to have the baby if she does not want to.
@mbarryton (1872)
• United States
25 Jan 07
well first of all there is the thing of adoption if your raped and cant deal mentally with the child give it to someone that can, 2nd if the baby is gonna be disabled why kill it thats selfish i mean are you afraid you'll get made fun of or something having a baby growing inside you is a gods blessing not a curse to be thrown away and forgotten about, and at 14 you should be put on birth control as soon as you become sexually active and then if you get pregnant put it up for adoption also i mean its not like it costs anything and the baby has a chance at life.
• United States
24 Jan 07
If it is legalized, there should not be any "situations" attached. It wouldn't make sense, because the girl could just lie anyway. I believe abortion is a personal choice, and government should not tell you if you have to have a baby or not. It is your life, and your body, so therefore it's your decision.
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• Portugal
25 Jan 07
even if the girl lies the law to be approved will not let her abort its just that u can only abort IF and only IF u have a proff that lets u do it accordingly to the law (example: a girl is pregnant and wants to abort she claims that she was raped, anyways she will have to make some kind of test to see if its true then only if its proven that she was raped she can abort her pregnancy).
@hottie0728 (1732)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I'm no to abortion. Would you feel good on killing your own child? I mean some people had fun doing it but when it comes to responsibility they all backed up. It is not the poor baby's fault and no one has the right to take someone's life.
@jobinbabu (151)
• India
25 Jan 07
IN case of any medical emergency it should me allowed(only in case of medical emergency).in abortion we killing a human being,we might say that if the child grows up he will have a tough time,but we dont have the power to decide his fate.And how can anyone conduct public opinion polls to see whether its lawfull to kill someone ,you should see what the foetus goes through when it is killed.ya it can feel the pain,the suffocation.so i dont thing it should even be put for apublic opinion
@fizzytom (752)
• Maribor, Slovenia
25 Jan 07
How do you KNOW it feels pain? At such an early stage it feels nothing and has no way to make sense of what is happening? It is not a viable life form at 12 weeks.
@moirax23 (317)
• Malta
25 Jan 07
I do not agree with abortion. Why not be responsable and use contraceptives instead of having fun and then consider abortion. I believe it is a way of murdering.
@kurtdon (143)
• Malta
25 Jan 07
Yes i consider abortion murder too.
@artERiN (76)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Everybody has their own opinion on this thread. I am entitled to mine also and I am not in favored of abortion no matter what the cause may be. Why? It's still life, i just can't bare the thought of it. BUT according to various references there are different kinds of abortion and one wof which is the Therapeutic abortion. Reasons of such kind of induced abortion are to save the live of the pregnant woman, preserve the woman's physical and mental health, te terminate preganacy that would result to a child born with congential disorder which would be fatal and selectively reduce the number of fetuses to lessen helath risks in cases of multiple pregnancy. As per the discussion starter, I think you should have pointed out what kind of abortion cause in medical terms, simply saying abortion is very much general. Books adress miscarriage as Spontaneous abortion.
• United Arab Emirates
25 Jan 07
IT IS INCORRECT TO GENERALLY LEGALISE ABORTION ALL ACROSS THE BOARD. I my opinion, we human, do not have the right to take anybody's life. Yes, if medical complications are there then only it should be aborted, otherwise, solution shall not be to end the life of somepone whose own fault is nothing. No, alternatively, those young adventurers should own responsibility of such children, both man and woman and that should be made legal.
• Portugal
25 Jan 07
Even so if u remove the aglomerate of human cells called fetus that isnt a uman being yet u wont be taking anyone's life correct?
@ashumit02 (818)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I think life is wonderfull.So it must be saved any way.
@fizzytom (752)
• Maribor, Slovenia
25 Jan 07
Far better to improve the lives of people already on this earth than to demonise people for trying to the best in bad circumstances.
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
whether your in a bad situation or not, abortion is still not a good idea. it's not only against your morality but also the one above, unless you're an atheist. i know it's really a hard situation when your pregnant and your not ready for it. i was once in a situation where i thought i was pregnant. it's really disturbing and you dont know what to do. i also end up thinking of aborting the baby but then all my friends told me that they will hate me forever if i'll do it. i never do it not only because im afraid to lose all my friends but because i realized that why would i sacrifice the life of an innocent soul for my mistake. we don't have the right to end up the life of others just because we are afraid to face the consequences for the mistakes that we have made. being in a situation would only prove that life is full of surprises. it comes when u least expect it. you can say that maybe your exempted because you dont want it because you were raped. but still, it is not an excused. i guess you know that babies are wonderful blessings of God. and they too didn't want you to experienced it. but as i said, life is full of surprises and you need to be strong, patient and understanding to be able to handle it.
• United States
25 Jan 07
Your friends disrespected you so much when you were going through a hard time like that and so non supportive to tell you they would hate you if you got an abortion? Your still friends with these people? Your reason for not getting an abortions was because you would have no friends? That is terrible.
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
as i said, i didnt get abortion just because i will lost all my friends. i just realized that it is unreasonable to do that and we dont have the right to end up a life. its just like committing a murder.