what age is good to tell your son,his father is not his real father??

United States
October 7, 2006 2:09pm CST
How and when do you talk to your child about this, without hurting his feelings.I want my son to know the truth by me, not from someone else. Help!
2 responses
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Oct 06
If you decide to tell him, make sure that the person who he thinks is his dad is there. Choose a day when every one is calm and make it a special day, maybe a family dinner at home. I think you will know in your heart when the right time is to tell him.
• United States
21 Oct 06
I agree with you & you did a great job explaining how to do it.
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
17 Oct 06
I think it will be better to tell him at a small age as at a matured age he will be tend to be more agressive and rude! Its better to get things off your shoulders than to carry the burden