iam in love with a girl who is elder to me does that make any difference
By anshnav
@anshnav (479)
India
January 24, 2007 9:52am CST
iam deeply in love with a girl who is elder to me in age and i fear to propose her because she might reject What do i do HELP ME please
6 responses
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
24 Jan 07
age does not matter when it comes to love. for as long as your intentions for her are real and pure, then go and tell her about how you feel. it does not matter if she rejects you or not. the important thing is that you are able to express how you feel towards her.
@cute_missmary (3866)
• United States
24 Jan 07
never b afraid of love, if ur love is genuine & u r serious, go ahead & propose, dont just sit thinking that wht she will answer....have the gutts & atleast tell her once abt ur feelings
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
24 Jan 07
yep. guts is really important and confidence as well. atleast be honest about how you feel. it might hurt if she turned you down. but atleast, you were able to say it!
@tsuresh01 (821)
• India
24 Jan 07
can i say u one thing... first propose her.. if she agreeess no problem.. if she did not agrees u just insert ur rod in her hole.. thats the only thing.. want to do..
@072006 (1276)
• India
24 Jan 07
Hey!!
If ur truely , deeply in love with that girl, then really you need not to b worried, if ur love is genuine then , just dont be afraid.Be confident, but while propsing her try to make situation in control and clear, like first of all have good impression on her, try to convey message in ur act that you care for her lot and not love here. keep this thing in mind. Do all this with honesty and patience....if only you want positive reply from her side, and want that girl to love you.
Best luck!!!
@doodlebug5250603 (1993)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I guess it just depends on how much older she is than you? that might be her concern. But you shouldn't be afraid to let her know how you really feel about her. My fiance is 5 years older than me. He is 28 and i am 23.
He jokes with me and says "when you were wearing diapers i was saying my ABCs" lol.
@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
As I can see the situation AGE is not the problem, it the rejecting part that you are afraid of, because even that girl is same with your age I bet still you will be afraid that you will be rejected, and everyman who loves and did tell yet that they love that girl are afraid of being rejected.
Don't be afraid and if he is older than you than love is beyond age it is the feeling for each other that's real matter at all, and besides you never knew what she felt towards you if you are will not tell her what you feel towards her.
Have courage and take action for your love.
