Despressed after moving overseas...
By comedyaddict
@comedyaddict (772)
Canada
January 24, 2007 1:07pm CST
Hi everyone. About a year ago my family moved back overseas. My younger brother has been really depressed since. He hasn't looked for a job, hasn't made any friends, hasn't really done anything since he been back. Before we left, he was one of the keenest ones to come back. Does anyone have any great ideas about what we can do to try and jump start his life again?
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@polachicago (18716)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Did you move to Canada? Or your family moved back form Canada to home country?
@comedyaddict (772)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
Moved back to Canada. Lived in Canada before, then moved to New Zealand, now moved back to Canada...
@comedyaddict (772)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
yep.. even though all the reasons he wanted to leave still apply... he likes the winter; was sick of the crime, etc.
@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
26 Feb 07
Maybe you have heard what the top scientists have found about how our brain works. As it consists of more than 60% fats, it is important that the fats are of good quality. Otherwise there will be problems that are going to cause depression and even other serious problems like ADHD and mental illness.
So what fats should we avoid?
Transfats and fried food are the most harmful - (butter is better than margarine). The heated transfats will work like a computer virus in our brain.
So what to eat?
1.Fish, at least three times a week or cold pressed fish oil from cold water fish, more than 30% of the fat in our brain should be Omega3.
2.Cold pressed vegetable oils and we could pour the oil on the food after it is cooked so that the heat does not destroy the good stuff in the oil.
You can read what sort of oils the top nutrition scientists recommend by going to www.gnld.com and why they are difficult to get them from our ordinary food.
Welcome to ask for more information if you wish.
@sadgirl_1958 (1088)
• United States
12 Feb 07
Hi C.A.
Are you sure the depression is from all the moving about or is he suffering from clinical depression and the move seems to have aggravated the depression? I have seen this before in my clinical life as a social worker. If he appears depressed and has zero energy level - it might be good for him to have a check up just to make sure there isn't any physical or mental health issues going on here. Was he showing any signs of depression in NZ? He may have been excited to go back to Canada thinking that his depression was because he was in NZ and a life change would do him good. However, we cannot run away from depression....no matter how much we might like to do so.
The next issue is adjustments to different environment, climate, culture can truly be difficult for some people. You may want to suggest he go speak to a therapist - particularly one who specializes in immigration and cultural adjustments. There are some of us out there. Your brother is not alone in any case. He is fortunate to have a brother like you looking out for him.