vent your anger!!!!!!!

Sorry to hear about your bad day but for you I will vent....... I satrted seeing this guy we decided to take things day by day but not get serious, all was well until I recieved an e-mail from him that he was getting back with his ex. I'm not upset that he went back with her I am mad that he couldn't be man enough to tell me. AARRRGGGHHH. I hope today everyone has a better day

I like this discussion . There is a person in my life who I feel is constantly trying to control what I do . When I explain the reasons why I am mad they come back with how everything I do is wrong and if I would just change my attitude things would be fine . Meaning change my attitude to their way of thinking . I do not want to do this as I am not a child who can't decide what is best for me and if I am doing the wrong thing so be it . I am not changing for anyone so either take me as I am or buzz off . This of course only causes more arguements and fights , all I can say is I am getting tired fast of this same arguement all the time and am thinking of throwing the towel so to say in and moving on with what I want to do , the only reason I haven't done so , so far , is because even though I believe I am right I still care a lot for this person and would like to work things out . I don't want to end it over something petty which is what I am afraid will happen and there are other factors to consider also . Ok well now I feel better . Most of this will not make sence to anyone else but I feel better just knowing that I said something lol . Very good discussion topic :)

that is a ruogh day but tommorrow youll be able to laugh about it. anger can be such a waste of energy tooo.hope you have a better day tommorow your friend paul

Sounds like you're having one of my days. I sympathize. Here's what I'm all p.o.'ed about today: First off I got woke up by the same phone solicitor (Indianapolis Newspapers) that calls twice a day to get an earful of my personal alarm...you'd think they'd give it up. Second, I was in the middle of doing homework and the hubs kept interrupting my train of thought for whatever he was reading in the online news--he's always sorry, but never shuts up. Third, I went to make a quick dinner and found my kitchen trashed with my stepson loafing on the couch, as usual, so I start ranting and threatening to throw the dishes away and let them eat from paper plates for the rest of their lives. That's when my hubs tells me I am being ridiculous. What I think is ridiculous is this kid can do whatever the hell he wants as long as it isn't defying dad. If they think I'm doing those dishes, they can think again. GRRRRRR. So, here I am in here ranting and throwing another fit while my homework sits undone because I don't have room in here to spread my books out and still sit comfortably. Now I'm mad because I'm going to have to go to class tomorrow after being up all night once again. 10 am comes pretty early when you're up till 7 am. Bad thing is, tomorrow is my longest day of the week. Classes starting at 10 am and ending at 9 pm. Thanks for opening this thread, it saved me a trip to my anonymous ranting blog, lol. Starting to feel a bit better already.

Today was not a bad day except for one thing....one of my friends had gone home in the holidays and he had to pay for his food to the caterer...i had paid on his behalf then....i have been chasing him to get my money back but everyday he says he will give it ...but is not paying up and right now i am running short on cash.....he is such a sissy little kid...he doesnt even keep his cash with himself.....his parents have given it to his uncle........he cant even handle reponsibilities even at the age of 19.......god knows when is he going to grow up.

I AM SICK AND TIRED OF MY HUSBAND'S EX WIFE! I am married to a very nice guy. So nice that he won't stand up to his ex wife who treats him like crap. Lately she has been getting overly friendly with my husband. He who gets along with everyone and wants peace and love, etc. even feels somewhat uncomfortable with the way she's been acting towards him! At the same time he says ex's should be able to be friendly with each other. I agree, although I think there should be a limit to that friendliness. Otherwise you may as well be back together. Aaaannnd, if he's letting her believe he wants her, then that needs to stop. Ok, just needed to vent. I'm sure I'll calm down by the end of the day and let this pass! Thanks for letting us vent!

Hi bittybiddy, I feel bad for what you had to go through in last two days. But c'mmon don'y take life so seriously. I feel after writing what yo had to say on this thread you could now look back and laugh about it as we all can see funny side of things too. agree life can be rough and tough but it can be fun too. haing as ense of humour and positive attitude helps too. And hopefully you were able to find shelte for poor dog and hoepfully safety pin thing didn'ty leave you too embrassed. Samething had happened to me ins chool and i was too embrassed as i was one who was always upright, dignified, i am not bragging. And yes i also get angry very often but i just shout it out and see funny side and it helps. Wrting on mylot also helps me.

ok ok ok i gots some venting to do,,So last night Mr Bush Jerk comes and invades my only Tv time..lol..then he starts to talk..he says a sentence....clap clap clap!!...A FEW WORDS.CLAP CLAP CLAP!!! this time he doesnt even fisnish what he has to say..clapo clap clap!!enough AS$ KISSING!!! They are just showing off because they were on tv..i dont knwo what else to say..but omg! i was soo irritated!! i dont even remember what he said but something ion health care and Socoal security..and..CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP!!!UGGHHH!!! i wanted to throw my tv out the window!!!!

Why do you people keep calling me? How many times do I need to tell you that we will have the money to pay the stupid credit card bill at the end of the month? Please leave my family and I alone! PS- If you call and wake up my baby again, its going to get nasty!

Hello there I hope your anger will subside now. For it is not good if you always allow your self to have it try to control of your self and think something good happened to you or treat your self in things you want to do, you want to eat and go out.

today i hate my boss she's so mean sometimes shes really way out of line i just hope she realize it and change her attitude

Yeah, I'm ticked about a bunch of crap today.... Well my day started out at 2am when my DRUNK boyfriend decides to start calling me to tell me how much he loves me after he wouldn't answer his phone all night long....Then the jackass didn't get up and go to work this morning and left his daughter hangin' half the day, wondering what the heck was going on. Then around 10am I feel a migraine coming on after hours of trying to wake him with phone call after phone call because his daughter was ringing my phone off the hook. He didn't answer his phone till almost 1pm. AHHHHHH So irresponsible!!! Then my daughter was just in a rotten mood today...breakfast went on the floor, lunch went on the floor, and dinner went on the floor....She also got an orange crayon and colored most of the walls and tv's in the house.... After all the clean up, homework and baths, (keep in mind I've had a migraine ALL day too) I decide to take a break and lay on the couch to ease my head and my daughter walks over and nails me right in the head with her darn sippy cup. It has not been a good day. I just need to go to bed.....Thanks for letting me vent! Hope tomorrow is a better one for you too!

Well I am beyond anger and irritation at the moment. I am so angry that a new year has started and i am broke as hell! Cannot find a way to fix it or a solid solution. Then my manager has the nerve to come to me and tell me to get my act together cos i am not focussed. I am too involved with my child...I mean for the love of urrrrrggggggg.....how dare she? my child is my priority, just bcos she doesnt have children does not give her the right to criticise my life. I do nothing but give her my everything!!! To make it worse, she then tells me to go to the bank and take out a loan to clear my debt cos she cant afford me to stress about financial worries........ I wish i could just ...............breathe in breathe out.....breathe in breathe out!!!!! **sniff**sniff still feel angry

yeah it happens with me too we have planned date and that day it was like yes no yes no yes no and and finally NO. went back home like an ..... huh

At least coming in here is cheaper than going to a counceller...

Oh dear you are having a bad time there aren't you I understand about the indicators as I always have that Problem with People or when they are in the fast lane and are doing under the Sped limit But I have actually had a good Day today but I reckon that will change lol as it always does

Oh well, they say all your troubles come in threes. Doesn't look like very many people are angry (maybe they attend anger management courses). I'm not angry either, well maybe a little annoyed. Yesterday, my car was really filthy, so I took it to the car wash and got the guy to wash it for me. They charge €5 for washing it, but because it was really dirty, I gave him €10. I felt really good driving along in my nice, almost new looking car, so to-day, I decided to go shopping as the roads were nice an dry. How could I forget about all the enormous pot holes that we have on our Irish roads! They are so big, I could lose a wheel or even the whole car. Well, a truck coming in the opposite direction went into such a pothole, which was full of mud, and completely splattered my car. I had to pull in to the nearest available space and wipe my side windows. Now the filthy car is back to it's original state before I went to the car wash, and I have just wasted my €10. Yes, now I think I will get mad at the council for not filling in the post holes on our roads.

Actually today I am not upset or angry about anything so far so I have nothing to vent my anger on or with!! Oh dear well the last two days you did not have a good days but hopefully things will change and you will enjoy your day but it is strange that when we have days like this we have to appreciate the days that are great and believe me when they do you will enjoy them more.

AH sweetie come over and sit down we can have a cup of coffee and get you chilled out. There now are you feeling better. How a bout a nice fresh donut to go with your coffee... OK now tell me your woes...oh never mind you did :) . I am so glad to hear that I ain't the only one who has those days...LOL We jus came from the famous chinese buffet herein town and the food was terrible the service was worse than I wanted to lave and we had to chase the waitress for 10 mins. to get the check needles to say it wasn't a fun time... We don't eat out alot but today we decided to treat ourselves then this :( but I am all better now thanks for letting me share this :)

Hi Bitty By contrast my day was good.You have got to cope with these occasional bad days without getting mad at yourself. Good Luck Johnra