What would you do if your guy/gal cheats on you?
By kryzzz31
@kryzzz31 (5)
United States
January 24, 2007 8:56pm CST
What would you do if your guy/gal cheats on you? and wat if He/she asks forgiveness??you will accept him/her back? what if he/she did it again, what are you going to do? would you give him another and another chance? how about to the girl/guy you caught what would you do to him/her? I know alot of people here have been cheated with there boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife.. any opinion? answers?
4 responses
@lonewolfnan (4366)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
If my girlfriend cheated on me,I would hope that we could sit down and discuss why she cheated on me(her needs,wants etc) and how together we can work on both of us getting what we want/need from the relationship.
If she cheated on me again,then it would be time for a separation to see if the feelings we had for each other could return and if not,game over.
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Once a cheater, always a cheater! I would not give a guy a second chance. I did that years ago, and he did it again. This is one case where if it happens once, it's a rap.
I would expect that if he had wants, needs, and/or desires that he felt were not being fulfilled that he would be man enough to sit down and communicate those before he went out and cheated.
@cherhost (1072)
• United States
25 Jan 07
It would be over. I would never trust him agian. So why keep going in this marriage if there was not trust. I hate to say it so harshly but he feels the same. I would hope that if it went to that then he would tell me he was not happy before he did it. I know that if I was feeling like that then I would leave before it got even worse. No need ot make anyone more hurt then they already were.
@chebin (286)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I wouldn't take him back... whatever reason he has for cheating on me, that's still cheating. forgiveness? yeah, maybe. i agree with the other responses, once a cheater, always a cheater... i think the what i could do for the cheater boyfriend is to give him advice not to cheat anymore, for his future gf's sake.
@annie_me17 (31)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Once a cheater always a cheater. But hey, there's always some chance of change. My guy cheated on me once. I forgave him and gave him a chance. I caught him cheating again so i dumped him and find myself a better man.
