i love you and i will never leave you...

@chingkz (230)
Philippines
January 24, 2007 9:15pm CST
when somebody will tell you this...do you really believe what he/she is telling you?? for me, this line is so hard to believe...almost everyone says this but most of them do not really mean it... :(
19 responses
@dietrie (20)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
I think this type of sentiment is better expressed through what you do, and not what you say. I would prefer to be with someone who consistently SHOWS how much he cares for me by respecting me, showing me how I am special to him and important in his life, on other such things... Rather than someone who lies, cheats, abuses or whatever else yet always manages to keep their claws in you with their sweet words. To me the people who are quiet with their constant love are more trustworthy. It's best I think to fall into a pattern of stability and security and not NEEDING to say I love you and won't leave you, instead of using those words as an apology.
@chingkz (230)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
well you have a point there.. showing ones love by his actions towards you is one way of telling a person that he/she really loves you...^^
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
at first i don't believe.i still doubt at first.i answered him after he said that,"that i am afraid and still have doubt on you." until such time that he proved that he will never leave me no matter what when the time that he ask me to marry him. trusting someone is not easy.right? for you to be trust by someone you have both of you let the hatred away.if you love someone trully then prove it.
@chingkz (230)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
yeah your right... but do you really believe that marrying you will not make him leave you??? some married couples are separating and having divorce... for me its still not an assurance that he will not leave me no mater what happens... :(
@nicelyrom (521)
• Philippines
31 Jan 07
it depends upon the person who's saying these words. you can limn through his eyes if he/she is sincere in what he/she is saying. there are some individuals who can say it easily but is not true to themselves. you must be careful with people like these.
• India
30 Jan 07
here after i cant accept that .ofcourse iam married now.
• Indonesia
25 Jan 07
When we fall in love, we will say that, our bf/gf or hubby or wife will say that... but as time goes by, after 5 year... no guarantee... but just have faith and strong love can keep that....still make us believe it...
• India
30 Jan 07
I always tell my girl that i will always love her and will never leave her and will always stand by my words but she always says i am fed up of this life and wanted to die which is nothing but she does not wanna be with me.
• India
25 Jan 07
well i would never believe in such a thing. may be because i have never been in love as my friends tell me or whatever but i do not believe in love
• United States
25 Jan 07
No I don't believe it. I have been in situations when this statement has been said and now they are no longer in my life. People need to be careful with what they say. No one knows what the future holds. They might mean it at the time,but no one knows what will happen.
@csenguler (243)
• United States
25 Jan 07
yea my girlfriend said that and after a week she broke up with me, how cool is that ha?
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
It depends on the person I guess. Whether the person is believable or not.
• India
25 Jan 07
If she is a true lover I would have believed it
@shiela15 (286)
• Australia
25 Jan 07
We always say that we shouldn't easily be carried away and believe this words. But when you're inlove, sometimes easily believe because you want it too. You didn't mind much for as long as you know you love him/her because you want the person to be yours. It is easy to believe when you're inlove to the one whose saying but if you don't trust him/her much, it will give you doubt to believe.
@gil_guo (12)
• China
25 Jan 07
If you are in love,I think maybe what he said at the time is truth.But I think it is best method to ignore it.If you have a good sense to hime you can take a long time to observe him and determine what you should do.
@gil_guo (12)
• China
25 Jan 07
If you are in love,I think what he said is truth at the time.If not,I think maybe he like you very much and want to express his feelings to you.Whether or no,I think it is the best method to ignore it.If you love him or have a good sense to hime you can take a long time to observe him and determine what you sholud do.
@siddhinfo (1500)
• India
25 Jan 07
One should not believe this. This is not true many a time in case of boy or girl. Boys want the girl to be his friend or want to enjoy with her so be careful. Some time girl just want to passtime with the boy to go to party if he spend on him, be aware from from such girl/lady. They will enjoy with you and may be in love with someone else. You will only dream about her and loose your money spending on her to keep her happy.
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I can say that only the person addressed to who can confirmed the sincerity and genuity of these words. On the line "I love you" just believe it and ask him why does he loves you? Or better yet ask him if he loves you because he needs you or he needs you because he loves you? Love is a very wonderful thing to feel. It's the most amazing and happy emotion that a person could ever felt. Just enjoy the feeling my friend. On the line "I will never leave you", there's nothing permanent in this world. Everyone and everything has its end. There's no such thing as forever or everlasting. Sooner or later he'll leave you as well. Remember this, that the only permanent in this world is TEMPORARY.
@Garameo (902)
• Germany
25 Jan 07
i think no women would do that to me like that, cause i won´t get in any friéndship with this woman if she would tell me thos ethings. if she would tell me i love you and we´ve took some time together, i think that´s alright but i never leave you...sorry...no way.
@anyutza (138)
• Romania
25 Jan 07
Well I had some similar experience,but I`m over it now.In my past,I tended not to believe my eventual boyfriend if he said that to me,but now I have an boyfriend made in heaven which I believe whenever he sais that I`m the one that he loves and he never leave me.
@gil_guo (12)
• China
25 Jan 07
If you are in love with hime,I think maybe what he said at the time is truth at least.But I think it is best method not to notice it.If you have a good sense to hime you can take a long time to observe him.