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i think you will get many response to this discussion. i think about a love marriage. i won´t marry any woman, if i don´t love her.

You've got to be kidding, right? The fact that your even asking that I'm sure you know why arranged marriages are a failure. A man's parents buying the hand of a woman. It really doesn't matter what she's bought with, money, social stature, etc., she is now a piece of merchandise. If anyone tells me you can fall in love or can come to love someone in this manner, I'll puke. The only thing become as a couple is content with each other. Love is the only way to start a marriage. From there a couple can grow together because they already are connected by spirit and mind.