My Brother cheating on his girlfriend.
By aileen2008
@aileen2008 (838)
Philippines
January 24, 2007 10:19pm CST
Am I obligated to tell my brother's girlfriend that he is cheating on her? I am not close to this girl and I dont intend to. BUt I pity her.
I know my bro is cheating coz I am the one receiving phone calls from a certain girl claiming that she is the girlfriend,lets name her GF#2.
GF#1 is living with us in our parents house. Everyone there from the maids to my mother knows about my brothers infidelity. I pity GF#1 and GF#2 , they both don't know that they are already being cheated by their boyfriend who happens to be my brother. hayyyzzzz!
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3 responses
@Mecboy (1050)
• United States
25 Jan 07
if you want, what do you say on the phone when GF#2 calls?
does she notice its you?
When a girl called my friends home, I picked it up and she said, HUH? Vercetti?
Man She knew it was me.
I just say no, are you cheating on your boyfriend?
HUH, sure tell him yes cheating, tell i was never with him.
My friend picked it up and said, sure ill go to the mall and get her a present. TURNED out it was fake cheat.
But did the GF#2 find out who was on the phone, You should tell them if you want, but its best to tell your brother sometimes.
@aileen2008 (838)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
My brother is just as stubborn as mule. He will just to mind my own business.
@coffeechat (1961)
• New Zealand
30 Jan 07
Your brother is in a domestic partnership. Since you mention maids and staying in parent's home, am I right in assuming that you are in the Philippines.
If you find that you are unable to broach the subject with your brother and yet want to do something about it, the best people to broach the subject would be your parents. If for some reason they know and want to leave your brother to his own decisions, then there is precious little you can do without causing aggravation.
Perhaps a friend of your brother's, or a family counsellor or a senior relative may be able to help your brother untangle the potentially disruptive situation.
But I do not think you are obliged to do anything beyond what you are comfortable with in terms of consequences.
@truegoan (11)
• India
29 Jan 07
Your not obligated to tell your brother's girlfreind anything but it the more humane thing to do .But you should consider speaking to your brother first and making him understand tht he is ruining their lives which isnt acceptable.
But i understand you could damage your realtionship with your brother over someone your not even close with .
But if i were in your place i would reason with my bro and make him see it my way .The problem lies with your bro and not those gals ..Correct the problem from the source .tht's my way of looking at things .