what u do if ur close friend cheats u
@dhaliwalrosedeep (446)
India
5 responses
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
25 Jan 07
no friend is a friend when he/ she cheats. one word s too often profaned and that is FRIENDSHIP. when we interact with a person , instead of saying acquaintance we say that we are friends. no wonder friendship is losing its worth due to indiscriminate use of the term.
so, obviously , two friends can never cheat or betray, its a kind of unwritten ethics. true friends can never think of cheating, instead they would become martyr!! as regards me, i am bit choosy about friends and on making one i would never cheat on him/ her. my friendship is pure, transparent, critical but honest and all pervasive.
however, having said this, there are occasions when apparent cheating has some deeper reason behind and in the end we are benefited from it, but then exception proves the rule.
thank you for a nice discussion
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
27 Jan 07
I just got cheated by a friend that I really wanted to trust and beleive was a good friend of mine . We no longer talk and I don't ever want anything to do with her again . I don't wish any ill towards her but I never want her as a part of my life again . We were friends for years and she cheated me in the past . She had a traumatic event happen in her life and I believed this would have changed her but I was wrong . It took me a year to find out she was the same type of person . I gave her a second chance and she ruined it for herself . I believe everyone can change and therefore believe in second chances but after all is said and done , most people really don't change .
@virtualcasanova (393)
• India
25 Jan 07
I don't feel like cheating anyone is a good thing but if u don't have any other choice and u don't care for the other person's emotion then u won't hesitate in cheating.
But if I have been cheated by my close friends and i come to know this I would punish him/her.
Punishment would be refusal of any further relation with him/her.