what do u like most about your spouse?
By sechsey
@sechsey (1831)
Canada
January 25, 2007 4:03am CST
I read soemwhere in mylot about what annoys you the most about your partner so now, what do u like best about them? IS it something special they do all the time? Is it how affectionate they are?what i like best about my husband is how he think about my welfare all the time. He cooks me breakfast even when im cranky and woke up at the wrong side of the bed. He makes me smile and laugh and makes me happy with all his antics. He makes up this faces just to make me smile when im sad. he takes me to my favorite restaurant or fastfood if Im craving pizza or spicy foods. And he loves me still even when im mean to him.
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@chocobaby (677)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
oh, when i was reading your post about you and your hubby, it sounded almost exactly alike with me and my hubby. although mine has many flaws, he is always kind and warm to me even when i am mean. he pamper me almost the same way you said your hubby do to you. i wish i can change my attitude and be as patient as him. i hope he will never get tired of me.
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@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
I consider my husband as a modern prince fight not with sword but with compassion and love.
He knew all the household chores and never shy of doing it she help me to do those things, a real good cook and a SOFT SPOKEN MAN.
I know nobody's perfect but for me he IS perfect and that's explain the happy years we spent for 12 years now. He might not be the richest man or the handsome man or the intelligent man but he is the PERFECT MAN for me.
cheers to our happy married life ahead.
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@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
25 Jan 07
CHEERS to a happy married life!! That is for both of us hehe :) I have read somewhere it isnt about finding the perfect person to love but its about making the perfect situation with him. Soemthing like that :)
my husband and I have our own flaws as an individual and as partners too but we are happy and I am happy too having him by my side. So far, he has proven alot on how he makes the perfect situation with me even when things are a little rough.
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@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I love the fact that my husband is always there for me when I am mad or need someone to talk to. He is my best friend. He is really funny so he is always making me laugh and really knows how to cheer me up. I love how he is so good with our baby. He is so over protective of her! And like you said he loves me even though I am mean to him!
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@nelltx (277)
• United States
25 Jan 07
My hubbys best features are his eyes & legs. He has very muscular legs, he wears shorts to work (hes an athletic trainer) so his legs are always tan. But his best feature overall is how he treats me & our kids. He has the biggest heart any man could have.
@lilangel1869 (126)
• United States
26 Jan 07
The thing i like most about my husband is his smile, because no matter how mad or upset i am all he has to do is smile and it makes everything better. Also i love his laugh, he has this really cute laugh.
@urmila1810 (34)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Thats very nice of u to start this discussion about best about one's hubby !! The best part abt my hubby he is very organised & helps me in household chores too ! he is very patient and i am not actually ! We both love seafood a lot he makes it a point to take me to my favourite resturant every alternate weekend ! When I am depressed . he tries to cheer me up .. he sings sweet songs for me ..
He is a lovely husband !!!!Touchwood
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@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
Lol touchwood indeed!:P its nice to at least think about those things that our partners are good at. I know we also tend to focus on what's wrong all the time so it's nice to think about what's right and what's been neglected or seemingly unappreciated lately. Maybe when our partners read these, they'll realize as well how truly appreciated their efforts were and that we are proud of them even if we havent said it to them personally.
@Penguinsangel (3498)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I love how he can usually make smile and laugh at most anytime, weather I am already ticked off at him or sad or whatever. I love that!! He also has broaden my horizons on food and drinks.
He loves me for me! He doesn't want me to change, no matter how I might bug him sometimes.
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@Penguinsangel (3498)
• United States
26 Jan 07
btw - I LOVE that picture of you two! You both look beautiful and love how your in the water like that.
@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
Lol it was one of our wedding picture. My husband was annoyed with that. he isnt into too much drama lol But thanks! And by the way, its nice that your husband take you on a food trip and broaden your choices with food and drinks. Thats a good way to know what you are both into as well. I remember whenever I tell my husband that i havent tasted that or never had apple pie or something, he immediately just takes me to a store for it or promise to take me somewhere so i can have what i missed all this time, according to him. lol :)
@celestial_fantasia (620)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I absolutly and whole heartedly adore my husband. Yes there are some annoyances, but at the same time I love even those things about him. He is supportive, kind, funny, sarcastic, and my very best friend in the whole world. I thank the heavens above over and over again that I am so lucky to have someone like him in my life and that he loves me.
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
25 Jan 07
He loves me warts and all (as the saying goes). I appreciate that. He gives me my space, and I give him his. It's a 50/50 relationship. WE help each other because we want to, not because we feel that we have to. I love the little things that he does for no reason. He puts up with me and put up with him. So many people that aren't in good relationships just don't understand us. Frankly, we don't care. Sometimes the guys will give him heck or call me the old ball and chain - but that's how they're viewing it - not us!
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@bestisyettocome (1531)
• United States
25 Jan 07
The thing I love most about my spouse is his dedication to his family and job. I am comfortable in knowing that he will keep his job and we will never have to worry about welfare or whatnot. He will usually give me my way in just about everything.
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@fieryfrost (316)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
What I love most about my husband is his ability to show how much he loves me with every single thing he does. Simple kisses on the neck, when he holds me in his arms, when he makes me laugh about the smallest things and most of all when we have adult conversations. It's nice to be able to talk to your husband about anything and everything under the sun.
@akirachelle (17)
• Japan
25 Jan 07
My husband is a very quiet type of person. I like that in a man. For me having that attitude makes man more masculine. An outspoekn guy for me lessens his masculinity and makes himself less attractive.
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@nanoration (36)
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26 Jan 07
I agree with you. I prefer men who are quiet and talk when there is necessity. Talkative or funny guys are not my type, they are suitable to be my friends but not a boyfriend or a husband.
@artERiN (76)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Hmmm... what can I say? It's like asking me the question what made you fall in love with your hubby? Honestly, i can't think of anything i like about him but what i know is that i just simply love him. And it's odd that i can only think of the things i hate about him. Here's probably what I can say, he just makes me feel so special whenever he's around. The I love yous in his text messages, while walking, before sleeping, before leaving and even while i'm asleep always feel so good. Oh, i guess it's his being affectionate that i like the most. Sweet!
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@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
I love my husband because in a way I know he loves me very much. He is having a problem with memorizing (and that explains why he forgets my birthday and all) but apart from that he is very loving indeed. If I ask him that I wanted to go for a holiday, he never think twice. He will just say, okay. "Where are we going?" It's like that. And if I want to go window shopping or watching the movies, he will say "Let's go!" right away. That's why I love him very much!
@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
Lol forgetting bdays are big deal huh? My boyfriend did that once. He knew the date but somehow he forgot about it when the date arrived. Made him suffer the whole night lol but he made about to it especially a year later on my next birthday. :) Just fun to remind him about it still :P
@hikarushidou (843)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
Well yeah i wanted someone to post this so i can share to you all how wonderful my hubby is. He barely gets mad. even if i get mad for no reason at all he still stays beside me and turns sweeter, as if he's not sweet enough. I like it when he kiss me on the face too for no reason at all. and most of all, he's good to everyone. I mean he's fair, he's morally good and helpful to those in need.
@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
When you talked bout how your husband just kiss you on the face for no reason, It reminded me of how my husband also kisses me on the forehead. It can be while watching tv or when he wants to be affectionate in public. Its so loving you know. It warms my heart.
@hopefoo (1145)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
What do I like most about him? He's sweet, he's an introvert like me, we both like the same things, but what I love best about him is the way that he loves me. One time in Shanghai, in the middle of winter, it was raining and me..being from the equator, is very afraid of the cold..and we couldn't get a cab to go home. He told me to stay under the shade while he stood in the rain for close to two hours before we finally hailed a cab. :) I'm so lucky.
@astromama (1221)
• United States
25 Jan 07
my husband is super-romantic, gives me back or foot massages nightly...not kidding.. spends all his free time with me, and is HOT. not to be superficial, folks, but I love that he's gorgeous... I could never stay mad at that beautiful face!
@soulsetfire (65)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I like the fact that I can be a complete nerd around him, and he reciprocates. I mean, even after having children, we are both just stupid for each other. He has a great sense of humor, a wonderful sense of caring for both my children and I and a devotion to his family.
That, and he does the dishes and rubs my feet. :P
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