Any tips for romancing your husband???
By astromama
@astromama (1221)
United States
January 25, 2007 2:00pm CST
My husband and I have been together for three years, and he is THE most romantic guy... My problem is, all the flowers, fancy homemade dinners, massages and little presents and such are always coming from him. He's a sweet, artistic, gentle, earth-friendly guy, so the regular wristwatch-football tickets-cologne-drill kind of gifts don't work on him, but sometimes I desperately want to be the one who romances HIM for once, in a unique way. Any suggestions on how I could achieve such a thing? I am one lucky lady and I verbalize this every single day... I just kinda want to knock his socks off sometimes. :-) what do you do to make your spouse feel special?
3 responses
@uath13 (8192)
• United States
25 Jan 07
Can't say I'm sweat but otherwise I'm much like your husband sounds. Unfortunantly I can't think of anything. I've always been the one to do the romantic stuff. I'd tell you what my wife's done but there isn't anything. It would be nice for her try. Just being the one getting the attention would be a nice change.
@toastking (272)
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25 Jan 07
I went away and actually was thinking of this whilst playing football and its really quite a hard thing. Whats his favourite meal, even if you dont like it, tell him to make sure he has nothing to do one night, cook him that meal then share a shower, the kind where you actually get more dirty ha.
Men in general care less about the romantic stuff, we like doing it but not as fussed about getting it done for us. Its sweet (not sweat thats perspiration) if you try and do things and any guy will appreciate that unless they are a total numpty. So as long as your seen to be trying your best thats very romantic really.
@toastking (272)
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25 Jan 07
Its a tough one, as the stuff you have done for him sounds great but maybe you could try something new. Maybe take the time to ask him what he would like, and then not go totally with what he says as he wont always say what he most wants.
He may just want you to do something like go with him to something, or watch him do something, or do something for him like a sexy dance or something, or take a class in something that means you will be doing it for him.
God knows really cos I am a man, so its a bit harder for me to say, but I would be delighted with football tickets saying that they havent come and wont ever come my way from her so maybe thats why...
