matured people please help!

Philippines
January 25, 2007 7:59pm CST
i am problematic nowadays. me and my husband want to have our own home but my parent keep an arguing that they want us to build a house near them but my husband refuses to. he want to stand near his parents. what shall i do. im the one who is very involve and affected with the situation..please help.
3 responses
jumpinjack00
@jumpinjack00 (3054)
• United States
26 Jan 07
He's being a bit too selfish. Why his parents not yours? Why near either parents at all? If there is a parent who has a long illness then maybe that's where your eventual home should be. Otherwise, you two need to sit down and talk about what's best for the future of your family. If you two build next to one set of parents or the other, you or your husband are going to have feelings of resentment. The biggest decisions to take into consideration is finances, economy, children's school and the market. ‹(°¿°)›
cashnono
@cashnono (1135)
• Hong Kong
26 Jan 07
Where is your location? Will there be some one who can take care of your husband's parents if they are let alone?
sedel1027
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
26 Jan 07
You and your husband need to do what is best for your family (you and him and if you have any kids). Both sets of parents can not controll where you decide to build your home. YOu need ot move where it is an easy commute for you to get to work, have good school, and is better financially for you and your husband.