what do you think of mixed relationships
By sweetaspie52
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
United States
January 25, 2007 8:33pm CST
I am not prejudice and I want everyone to know this so please no smart remarks I am just wondering how many people feel the way I do...I do not believe in mixed marriages or mixed reationships with out being married I believe in a case of marriage or want to have children with out marriage is wrong when to adults have children in a mixed relationship ..let me clarify one thing that is if you want to marry into another race than that is fine but why would you want to put children in the relationship the children will suufer in the long run because they do not know with race they belong to how many agree with me please do not send any smart remarks I was only wondering
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5 responses
@beautifulceiling (1300)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Why does it matter what race they belong to? Why should it cause suffering to have parents of different races? I'm not being a smart alec when I say this, but you are claiming to not be prejudiced and then you are making statements that reveal prejudice.
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I am not making statement that reveal prejudice but it you were to think about the children children's and further on down the line and chilren finally marry of the same race than if they should have children and the child should be of a differnt race how would you explain that......just to say that their great great great great grandparents werte married but each of them were from a different race
@jeweledbluerose (3061)
• United States
6 Feb 07
Love does not see race, color, or creed. We all are human no matter what. We all bleed the same color, we all cry when sad; smile when happy; flinch when pain is inflicted on us. The only reason kids from a mixed marriage suffer hardships in life is because the parents of the ones who caused the hardship were not willing to teach their child tolerance and respect of others who may be different from them. In this day and age cultures, races are bound to intermingle with each other and different people from these cultures/races will eventually intermix as well. I see nothing wrong bringing a child into the world from a mixed marriage, I find these people more tolerant and respectful towards others (well at least the ones I have met).
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
• United States
6 Feb 07
I am open to anything anyone says and I respect their opionion and my I say that some children do behave and have more respect than others and I am not saying that one color or another is the best I believe that the parents are the ones to thank for raisng their child with manners
@missyd79 (3438)
• United States
27 Jan 07
i totally agree with you. if you want to marry out of your race that is fine with me (though i would never do that because that is just me) but when you have kids that is hard not only on them but for their kids and their kids kids. because it could come down to where a child looks one race and getss married to what race they look like and then have a child that looks the other race, hos do you explain that to the father?
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
• United States
27 Jan 07
That is a good poinop and I never thought of further now the family line thank you for your comment
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
26 Jan 07
You ask a good question. Consideration for the kids should be a question that is answered by the couple. I wouldn't look for a mixed relationship, but I am not totally against it. Then again, I don't plan on having any more kids.
I really don't have much to go on where the kids from mixed marriages are concerned. I don't have any direct experiences to base an opinion on.
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
• United States
27 Jan 07
Thank you for responce it is fine if two adults of different races want to get married but why bring a child into the family? it is hard enough now days to get along with each other in some places and with a child of mixed marriage it would even be harder to deciede with race they would want to claim as their own
@anex84 (465)
• Bulgaria
28 Jan 07
Some people are just more comfortable with others who have a similar background to theirs. Some people are just more open to dating outside of their race. Some of us would like to preserve our cultural identity for future generations.
Honestly I would think it would be a horrible world if there were no more people that were just Italian, Ukrainian, British, Japanese, etc.
@sweetaspie52 (2359)
• United States
28 Jan 07
I can fully understand your reasoning and thak you for responding