did you ever feel as if life is not treating you right?
By michele609
@michele609 (1687)
United States
8 responses
@kaspyv (1011)
• United States
26 Jan 07
several years ago i felt that way, but one day i finally realized that my life could and would only be what i make it. its all in your attitude...if you want to make a better quality life then you can do it, as long as you don't just sit around feeling sorry for yourself. you have to put some real effort into it.
@shobasvk (787)
• Malaysia
26 Jan 07
Yes,i do feel that sometimes..when many good things happened to the people surronding me but not to me.I was always get bad luck.I just don't know why.It is just like written in my fate that "you should not deserve good things happen to you."I can't aviod this things from not happening to me.
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
26 Jan 07
It is a horrible feeling, I tey to think positive but sometimes the negative over comes it!
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
28 Jan 07
Yes over the last to years I have felt that way as it was going that way
How do I deal with it? I fight and I fight, yes I have broke down a couple of times but I got back up and carried on fighting and I am hoping now that things will look up and get better
Never give up
@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Back three summers ago, with me thankful to God for hubby, children, fresh air, hot water, soap, green grass...you get the picture! We had a housefire. Could not understand WHY!? Went to work at the Motel where the Red Cross put us up for 6 days. We did not know what we were going to do. Hubby had lost his job the fall before however was working through the temporary services and the homeowners insurance had up and left the state and dropped us. So this went on for a few months and then instead of why, I began to think that I should pray for others and then perhaps good things would head our way. Well, it has been 3 summers and we are still in the leaky trailer that the Red Cross arranged for us on the property. At every turn we have been turned down to work and help ourselves. So we keep treading water until the time which God determines is the time for us to return to the life in the home we loved so much. We reserve the right to hope until something begins to actually happen! We know to never ask what could be worse since it always can get worse.
@smartearnings (130)
• India
31 Jan 07
Yes i feel always because what i have got i didn't deserved it but then also i have go along with it and sommetimes itas gets so worst that i feel like dieing.
@ScrappinHappyMom (914)
• United States
31 Jan 07
I think everyone feels this way at one time or another. This past year was very difficult for my little family, my husband and I found ourselves asking the "why us" question quite a bit. But this year we decided that we just keep on moving around the obsticles and try to make the best out of everyday. It is amazing how much better you feel when you find one positive thing in everyday.
@JMPILAPIL (503)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
For several times I felt that life is not treating right. Imagine when there are times that you feel down and out and things happen badly as if all the negative things are knocking on your door then you don't have the option but to open it or if you had the option bad things happen very fast that even if you tried avoiding minor accidents the consequences will do everything to make it happen. In the end you would think that there's a conspiracy going on...life is doing something oyu can never understand.
To deal with the situation I just stop and think of the problem then let everything pass hoping for answers for the coming days so I just take everything lightly.
@stailgate (2363)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I feel quite often that life is not going the way that i would like it, and I would like it to go better. But I try not to dwell on it and look for the best in whatever is going on. I look for the light ahead, not around in the dark where I am. Because I have done this, I feel very blessed for everything, good and bad that happends.