Dead Beat Fathers
By szarsang
@szarsang (9)
United States
January 25, 2007 10:21pm CST
I was having a discussion with another single mother the other day, we both have children by a dead beat father who does not pay child support.I told her we should start a petition of some sort where the government pays the child support, then they go after the fathers for whatever is owed. Im sure they would really TRY then to ACTUALLY get the child support our kids rightly deserve. I bet they would then throw them in jail for lacking on payments to the government. What do you guys think?
2 responses
@Wanderlaugh (1622)
• Australia
26 Jan 07
No complaints here. Some of those kids are wrecks, and no money doesn't help much. I have no idea how any guy could abandon his own kids.
To get anything effective done, though, you need to get the case law working. Need I say family law isn't the quickest or most effective way of doing things. If it can be made simple by a one step process, like getting a court order, without the major production and fees, that would be simpler and easier to enforce. Breach of a court order is legal Lego, everyone knows what's supposed to happen.
I'd suggest approaching the courts direct, or through your Attorney General, and not allowing it to become a political pet topic, because the real issues tend to become partisan. They get lost in the grandstanding. Legislative committees are another option, and they do work.
I'd also point out that throwing them in jail doesn't get you your money. You'd do better with garnishee out of wages, or something like it.
We've had some success in Australia in chasing up deadbeat dads through pure regulation, but as you can imagine, much easier talked about than achieved.
@ShayMorris (163)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Well, after raising my son on my own for 8 years, I think it would be a GRAND idea. The only reason I'm glad we never actually got it established, is now my husband can actively pursue adopting Jeffrey, without having to get permission from his biological father first.