Can you forgive thrice or how many times?

@aslygirl (531)
Philippines
January 25, 2007 11:19pm CST
My friend had a boyfriend which is so good and handsome.She love that guy so much, and the guy love my friend too. But the only problem is the guy is so unfaithful.When my friend notice that his boyfriend has another affair, She plan to broke the man,the guy promise to be good and be faihful just to give him another chance.My friend has a soft heart, she give her forgiveness and trust again.But suddenly the guy abuse it, we found out again that his boyfriend has another relationship, his forth affair.My friend cry but she said she will never give up his boyfriend.I was so amaze cause I thougt she will not forgive his boyfriend anymore after what he is done to her.Is anybody there like my friend who is so martir?
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@shiela15 (286)
• Australia
1 Feb 07
If I am your friend, I will break him up. You can forgive anyway, but trust does pays. You can't trust a person who fool you many times. The difference between trust and forgiveness is that trust is given even without mercy unlike forgiveness you can cheat forgiveness. I will really not going to continue a relationship like that. I know she can move on if she just believe in her thoughts instead of having a relationship that is just so stupid by which she don't deserve.
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@jinuxnet (675)
• Philippines
26 Jan 07
I think your bestfriend truly love his boyfriend. Do you remember what is the meaning of love? i hope so, but if i were you bestfriend i will move on now and forget that guy. If you will ask me why? because that guy is not sincere, he always broke his promise, he always doing his habit even he knows that he hurting her girlfriend all over and over again. You have said that your bestfriend has a soft heart, i think that guy really knows about it that's why he abusing her girlfriend. ohh c'mon please tell to your bestfriend that guy is not a real man. What if they are married? and that guy always doing and acts like a child, so i think your bestfriend will regret. I believe that guy is not his destiny. she must move on now, for me if you love someone, you can't hurt her/him because you are sincere and your love is only belonging to the only one.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
26 Jan 07
All is fair in love. People even forgive crimes committed by bf/gf. Such is the strength of love, deep attachment, unseparable feeling. I do not forgive more than once, come what may, I do not care even if the relationship is severed.
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• India
1 Feb 07
Hi, I am sorry for your friend.... and i am surprised as well that in this world there are people like your friend who are so emotional.... if i were in place of your friend i will definately kill that guy, when he had affair for the first time.... i will never give another chance to the person whom i love to ditch me.... as i told you in your other discussion... so tell your friend not to go before him.... and live her life happily without him... rather than wasting her life for him...
• Philippines
1 Feb 07
Trust leads to respect respect leads to love, if this cycle destroy then the relationship is useless.Well your friend is too kind, but sometimes dont be so fool,Once is enough but trice is too much, she must move on. Theres so many guy there better than his boyfriend...cheer up