my hubby confessed!!!!

I am happy that you are not jealous but I would be a littlt neroovs about this. I cant seem to accept that!

id certainly get jealous if i were in your position but ... i do tease my bf sometimes with other girls and he gets mad wen i do that..hehehe

you are really lucky to be soo secure in your relationship and have so much trust between you 2. Hope it always continues. I only get jealous of my bf's ex gfs. I just dont know why they cannot leave him alone. He's extremely goodlooking and I on the other hand am average looking. Some of his exes are really really good looking. So i guess i have an inferiority complex. But he always assures me that Im the one he wants and not them. But i still get jealous. However if its a girl i know and she likes him, i trust him and know he wont do anything to hurt me.

im a jealous type of person. if that happens to me, i dont know... i might get mad at him.

good for you, you two are very mature in handling such issues cause i don't think i can take that hehe. but anyways i admire your hubby for being so honest with you, i think it is pretty natural that you get crushes with someone else even if you are committed or even married to someone. it is plain human instinct to admire someone and you can't deny the fact that there is always someone better than you at least physically. but admiration should remain as that, anything beyond that would be unhealthful for your relationship. good thing your husband knows his boundaries and you completely trust him. why don't you get a crush on some guy and let's see how he would react. quite interesting!

really you're not jealous? that's great! =) it means you are secured and you're hubby doesn't hide anything from you. Both of you has lots of confidence in your relationship. Aside from that, it could also be that you don't see the girl as competition judging from her physical features that's why you don't feel a bit of jealousy. if i were in your place, i would probably get jealous at first. I guess it's a natural tendency because in a relationship you somehow develop a sense of exclusivity. But in the long run, I'll just shrugged it off unless of course, I see the girl flirting and bf is responding. that's a different story.

sounds like you have a good relationship,i dont think we would be human if we didnt like other people,its what you do about it that matters(and when your married that should be nothing)anyhu,good for you

Keep a watch on your husband. It might be just fun for both of you guys but be prepared for the worst case scenario, may be your husband might get attracted towards her. or she propose him. I don't want your relation to get bitter neither i want to poison your mind, ultimately its the understanding and emotional love which you people share. Wish you all the best for your future. God Bless you Guys.

It is good that you two are in sync with this situation. He obviously is not numb to life. I certainly hope that he brings that energy home to you! Keep in mind that it is possible in the right circumstances that this could go way wrong. Hope you can work on this and keep things together! I have pointed out other women to my hubby however he is so committed to us he tends to wear blinders around other women.

Oh dear your hubby is lucky because when I tease my wife I always end up with a smack on my head.

ya i have experienced that before and am really not worried about it as my girlfriend sometimes gets attracted to others but she loves me a lot more so she can't help it but stop by her bounderies and ya i do ge jealous sometimes but really she loves me and i really love the fact that she won't leave me no matter how attractive a person she finds out so i don't have to worry but just love her cause i really like loving her and making her happy.

LOL...No as i am single. However i do love the way that you handle yourself!!! When it comes to this sort of situation and i am glad that he knows his boundaries and that you can trust him this way!!!

i'ld say u r open minded as hell!!!

Aha.. perhabs she's ugly enough compare to you, eh? That you know you wouldn't have to be jealous of her? hahhaa.. I'm just teasing you here, leonilyn. That is what I called probably 'fascinated/adoration' to the other party. It's good to know that you could have a good laugh about it. I myself never experience this thing. I think I am a jealous type of person. However, if I find no good 'opponent' to be considered, I would probably do the same thing like you. Try to make a good laugh out of it.

It's a good thing that your husband was honest enough to tell you about his attraction before anything inappropriate happened. That is his way of proving that he deserves your trust. This honesty and ability to be upfront is a good quality in a man, and it's great that the two of you can discuss this without accusations and jealousy. As long as he knows his boundaries and doesn't cross any lines, then flirting is harmless.

i think you're very confident with your hubby's love which is nice. however that has not happen to me and i don't i would even tolerate my man. i know my man would like another but i dont want him getting all giddy and happy right in front of me. it's just not right.

So what exactly is the boundary? Hearing what you have said, even I am getting irritated. But, you should know him better than anyone. But keep him in this habit of sharing whatever he thinks then there is no problem I suppose.

it is better that from time to time you remind your husband that he is already married and must not do anything to destroy your married life. what if the time will comes that your husband is tempted who will he blame for that??

what if the girl ask for ur hubby's no.? will u get mad?

It's good to know that you can laugh about this, and your not the jealous type. but what will you do if the girl tells your husband that she likes him too? don't you think that there will be a problem somewhere?