monster-in law!! / myLot

Philippines

January 26, 2007 7:38am CST

my mom-in-law is sooo much getting into my nerves! she's constantly competing with me in almost everything!! especially when it comes to disciplining my kids..she always makes me feel that i have no right to have my own decisions. we live in the same house so i cant do anything but keep everything that i feel to myself and hope that someday,i can have my own life!!! = (

2 responses

omidmao

@omidmao (743)

• India

26 Jan 07

let me tell u something , try to be pation ,, i know it is very difficult but i am sure u can do it try to make her happy , and i asure u one day u will have ur own hous , just dont worry and be happy ,,, good luck

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fabchic

@fabchic (130)

• Philippines

26 Jan 07

thanks for the comment.i can be patient but i dont think i can ever please her..the resentment that i feel for her is too much.its over flowing..i sometimes hate myself for feeling this way...

Dinaammar

@Dinaammar (336)

• Egypt

1 Feb 07

I don't think you should wait until you have your own house or until you live seperately. I think that you should talk to your hubby about it, and ask him to deal with her. If this doesn't work, try to talk to her nicely, calmly, and in a civilized way. I hope it works out well for you. Cheers :)

fabchic

@fabchic (130)

• Philippines

2 Feb 07

hmm...my husband is another story..if i tell him about his mom,he sometimes gets annoyed at me so we just end up quarelling over it..he's just as hot-headed like her..