Do you believe that single men who fall for married women is really true love?
By sharon1980
@sharon1980 (116)
Philippines
January 26, 2007 9:31am CST
I have a friend during my college years, she is married but the marriage is kind of shaky. The husband work away from the family while my friend is at school. Then one of our batchmates courted her even if he knew that my friend is already married, legally married and with 1 kid. My friend is also attracted to him but doesn't want him to know because she doesn't want to break up her family. But the guy is really aggressive until the situation became a problem for both me and my friend because he started stalking my friend. Is that true love or obsession only?
4 responses
@vkkesu (78)
• United States
8 Feb 07
A man who does this is not a real man. He is insecure that he has anything to offer so he stalks. He doesn't value people or he wouldn't be getting involved with a married person to start with.
An obsessed person is a dangerous person. She need to drop all lines of communicaton now or he will end up talking to her husband anyway to get back at her. The grass is always greener on the other side!
Good marriages are not fairy tales, they are difficult, and sometimes frustrating. But that is real life. He's looking for that person to fill his dreams, not his arms.
@HalfFledgedWings (96)
• Singapore
26 Jan 07
Some men like to do it for the challenge.. but to hell with them. they shouldn't even think about hooking up with some other people's wife.
@momokoseiya (453)
• United States
26 Jan 07
She should not date this man. If he is stalking her, he is showing his true tendencies. That is not a healthy situation. To me, this does not sound like love, but obsession.
