gay coming out

@danieldf (216)
France
January 26, 2007 11:47am CST
Hi I'm a 22 years hld guy and I already live with a boy:his name is Walter and I love him more than my own life.I just would tell every gay here that sure it's not easy to be what we are espacially for family and friends ands often we hide ourselves behind a lie and we live this way somethimes for years.But I'm here to say that's better to say the truth cause if eople love you they love you for what you are not for what you are supposed to be...
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@bowtieguy (5915)
• United States
24 Aug 07
Although I do not support this kind of lifestyle being a christian man, I can understand the difficulties you face in life and I do realize that there is a real love involved, even if god dosent. it is very brave of you to come out and that shows a lot of character, and maybe someday you will no longer need to hide, and can show your true love for the whole world to see.
@diablouk (598)
27 Mar 07
Im 42 and came out over 20 yrs ago and it wasn't easy but at the end of the day I didnt want to hide who I was. My family took it in their stride and have never had a problem with who I am My boyfriend is 21 and his family still cant understand why he cant find a nice girl to settle down with. Its sad that they cannot accept that we are happy but live for the one you love - thats whats important
@Pigglies (9329)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I think in general, the truth is better if possible. I'm out at work, school, and with friends. But at home, my parents are very homophobic. I can't be out of the closet at home. I've tried and it caused horrible reactions from my parents.
@justreal (2364)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
I honestly have nothing against gay people, their choice of what they want to do in life, it's their choice. In general, gay people are very nice, affectionate and are very human people that also care. It's the personality and character that is important to accept someone, and not if he or she's gay or not.