change ur identity..;-)

Realllly, you feel that way? If your earnings go to the family you feel that you are working for someone else? You are trying to tell me that you feel the members of the family is not a part of you. Of course they are. They are ingrained in you. This family wouldn't have been formed without you. If you are trying to be completely changed into a new man, you will be affecting the entire family. First step, then, will have to involve everyone - call a meeting, open up, tell them about your plans and ask their opinion as to how you'd go about it. This way, as you struggle for that new life, everyone understands you thus, saving you much hassle.

a completely new man- why would i do that? I like myself little too much to start over again.. I would prefer to be what i am with what i do... because i like the way things are.. though this may not be true... i dont think some "starting over" thing is going to make me any more happier... wat u r suggesting happens only in fairy tales!