can i have popcorn with that drama???
By jesi06
@jesi06 (279)
United States
January 26, 2007 3:52pm CST
SO, I AM SEEING THIS GUY WHO USED TO BE JUST A FRIEND, AND SINCE OUR "RELTIONSHIP" STARTED HE'S ACTING KINDA WEIRD. I ASK HIM WHAT'S GOING ON, AND HE SIMPLY SAYS "NOTHING, I'M FINE. i ASK WHAT HE WANTS OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP AND HE SAYS MARRIAGE, YET I FIND OUT LAST NIGHT, HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN HANGING IN THE WINGS AS A "JUST IN CASE" NOW THE ONLY REASON I FOUND THIS OUT WAS BECAUSE SHE WAS BEING NOSEY AND WHILE HE WAS APPARENTLY SLEEPING SHE LOOKED THROUGH HIS CELL PHONE. SHE CALLED ME AND ASKED WHO I WAS. I TOLD HER....AND SO THE SAGA BEGINS. THIS WOMAN IS CRAZY! SHE HAS CALLED MY PHONE 10 TIMES ALREADY TODAY AND THE DAY IS NOT EVEN OVER YET. SHE KEEPS LEAVING MESSAGES CALLING ME FILTHY NAMES....NAMES I DON'T DESERVE AS I DID NOT EVEN KNOW OF HER. WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE? I ASKED HIM TODAY ABOUT HER, AND HE SAYS SHE IS JUST A CRAZY EX....OK, SO WHY THEN WHEN WE WERE JUST FRIENDS AND YOU TOLD ME EVERYTHING ABOUT ANYONE YOU WERE SEEING DID THIS WOMAN'S NAME NEVER COME UP? WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO LIE AND START DRAMA? I AM A GROWN WOMAN, I AM TOO OLD FOR THIS TYPE OF STUFF. WHAT EVER HAPPEN TO MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS?
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5 responses
@lauriefnp (5109)
• United States
26 Jan 07
You are a grown and mature woman, but it sounds as if this guy is not. He is obviously playing games and is not capable of an honest and meaningful relationship. I would say to dump him now; he's obviously not intending to get married to anyone in the near future, and if he does he will be a cheat. My question is this: how is it that his "friend" had access to him and his cell phone while he was sleeping... And if there is nothing going on between him and his "crazy ex" then why is she so worried about you? This is a clear cut case of he is not good enough for you- move on!
@jesi06 (279)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Thank you for your wise comment. I thought the same thing. It amazes me how people think they will get away with lying & cheating. Just come clean about it. You should give the person you are with the opportunity to choose if they want to be in a relationship where both parties are not being faithful.
@visitorinvasion (7709)
• United States
26 Jan 07
Damn, I didn't see that coming.
I'm so sorry that so many of us here advised you to go ahead and date him. Doesn't sound like he's ready to get married if there's another woman waiting in the wings.
I do have a question tho, if she is only an EX, how did she get her hands on his cell while he was sleeping?
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
27 Jan 07
On top of that how did she get your phone number out of the Cell. You don't need the drama. Stop it now. Sounds like he is giving you the run around. You don't need it and if he is seeing someone else, you don't need him
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
27 Jan 07
wow, thats too bad I would be over with that relationship. If this is what it is right now I would Run as FAR away from him and his drama as I could! She will also not let you alone I am sure you gotta get out of that. Crazy woman are nuts and dangerous.
