do you support love marriages?????????????
By praveen32
@praveen32 (310)
India
18 responses
@ravinderreddy (390)
• India
27 Jan 07
true love and then marriage is better.....
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@AngelicDevil20 (855)
• India
28 Jan 07
Yes Ofcourse I Do.. But Only If The Love Is True :)
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@kaushikmohan1988 (136)
• India
29 Jan 07
ya i support love marriages as i myself love a girl.
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@hannan_413 (24)
• Pakistan
29 Jan 07
I think arrange marriage is a better idea because it's been proven that most divorses happen in love marriages.But i you really have fallen in love with some one than you should marry that person or else you will also destroy the life of the other person.
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@hitzphillygirl (1235)
• United States
26 Jan 07
I'm not a big believer in marriage. To me, it's just a document and a couple of legal benefits. I'd rather live the life of someone who's married without actually getting married.
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@airnavigator (369)
• United States
27 Jan 07
I married the woman I loved and am very happy. However, I believe that it is possible to marry without being in love and then come to love that person passionately.
I read in a book years ago that the two greatest 19th century Prime Ministers of England, William Gladstone and Benjamin Desrali, both married for money and in time both came to be madly in love with their wives. In those days, Prime Ministers and members of Parliament were not paid and one had to be independently wealthy in order to have a career in politics. Also, men preferred to marry young women and if a woman was not married by her early 20s no man wanted her. Both Desrali and Gladstone decided that the only way to fund a political career was to find a wealthy woman in her 20s who others rejected and offer to marry her in exchange for the woman funding their career. Both men were honorable and worked at being good husbands as their part of the bargain and, in time, both fell deeply in love with their wives and had long and happy marriages.
I read a review of a book on marriage (based upon a major study of love and marriage) and one of the quotes that the author's used from thir research (and the reviewer included in the review) was from a man from India who was now living in the U.S. with his family. He explained to the authors that the difference between the Western view of marriage and the Eastern view was that, in the West, we marry the one we love, and, in the East, they love the one they marry. So, I think the important thing is, whether you marry for love or have an arranged marriage, is what you do after the marriage to build love with your spouse.
@sunnyyroy (119)
• India
1 Feb 07
ya i support love marriage over arrange marriage
because in love marriages u are going to start a new life with that person whom u know n above all whom u love........but in case of arrange marriages its the family whoo will decide with whom u r going to spend ur life.......it may or may not be a success....but in cases of love marriage there is the most chances of being a success
@neerja (36)
• India
1 Feb 07
yes i do support love marriages and i think even i will do the same because marriage is a once for all decision and you cannot live with the person whom you dont even know properly so i think love marriage is better.........
@starpawan (176)
• India
29 Jan 07
yes yaar.
marriage is very important part of the life.
everyone needs a partner different from friend to share every thing.
@prateek1700 (149)
• India
29 Jan 07
yes i do strongly support love marriages and plan to do the same when my turn comes my way and i also think that love is the most important thing in a marriage so love marriages are better than arranged ones.
@mdzafaruddin (879)
• India
29 Jan 07
yes i do support love marriages , there are many of my cousins and uncles who were in love and got married, now they are living a happy and peaceful life.
@kuntal41101 (366)
• India
29 Jan 07
Yes... i do support love marriage but with one condition. The condition is that the marriage should be carried out with the support and concent of parents of both sides. Because this has many adverse affects afterwards.
Firstly, whatever we are doing are things that we set example for our children to follow. If you eloped and got in the knots then you don't have the face to stop your children when they are upto something like this.
Secondly, getting the concent from both the sides is a stuff that needs quiet a daring to do. Guys and girls who have a position in the family because what they have achieved and parents rests full faith on them, then it becomes easy. But it takes quiet a bit of guts to convince your parents and who ever is sucessful in doing that are real achiever.
Lastly but not the least... love is an integral party of marriage/// the only difference is that some fall in love with their partner before marriage and others fall in love after marriage.... its all the same.... marriage always comes with the word LOVE